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		<title>Top 10 Best Selling Coffee Makers and Single Serve Coffee Makers</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 11:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ For people that drink as much coffee as we do, our recent experience with a single serve coffee maker in our hotel room during our Chicago vacation created temporary disappointment. I can only guess as to why hotels choose to provide hotel guests with one-cup coffee machines versus one that brews more than one [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!--INFOLINKS_ON--><!-- google_ad_section_start --><p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-4269" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="Keurig B30 Mini Single Serve Coffee Maker" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/Keurig-B30-Mini-Single-Serve-Coffee-Maker-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /> For people that drink as much <a title="Give up Coffee? Why?" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/11/give-up-coffee-why-should-i-stop-drinking-coffee.html" target="_self">coffee</a> as we do, our recent experience with a single serve coffee maker in our hotel room during our <a title="Chicago Vacations-Things to Do in Chicago" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2010/02/chicago-vacations-things-to-do-in-chicago.html" target="_self">Chicago vacation</a> created temporary disappointment. I can only guess as to why hotels choose to provide hotel guests with one-cup coffee machines versus one that brews more than one cup of coffee at a time, but we weren’t impressed.</p>
<p>The moment we checked into our hotel room and saw the tiny coffee making appliance sitting on the counter at the hotel we stayed at, we knew we weren’t going to make it through our entire vacation trip with that silly looking coffee maker. We made a beeline to the nearest store and bought a cheap, black 12-cup automatic coffee maker that was sitting all by itself on a discount clearance shelf for just ten dollars.</p>
<p>We also bought our favorite coffee creamer, two large coffee cups that only cost 99 cents each, and a decent size container of our favorite brand of coffee and coffee filters. We couldn’t help but laugh when we read the front of the coffee maker provided by the hotel, where it claims to be a two-cup coffee machine that comes with pre-measured coffee pods. The only way it would be possible to get two cups of coffee from that machine would be for us to use cups from a little girl’s toy tea set. Simply ridiculous.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;"><strong>Top Ten Best Selling Coffee Makers</strong></span></p>
<p>Even though the automatic coffee maker we bought during our vacation doesn’t appear anywhere on the list of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fgp%2Fbestsellers%2Fkitchen%2F289742%3Fie%3DUTF8%26ref_%3Dpd%5Fts%5Fk%5Fldr%5F289742&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">best selling coffee makers</a>, we were pleased with the results even with the slow brewing time. We’ve been talking about replacing the lousy Proctor Silex coffee maker we have at home for a better quality machine, and since we donated the one we used during our trip to the kids, we’ve been checking out <a title="Coffee Maker Reviews" href="http://coffeeteablog.com/coffee-maker-virtual-reviews/" target="_blank">coffee maker reviews</a> and ratings for all the different kinds of coffee makers.</p>
<p>Apparently, single serve coffee makers like the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26search-alias%3Dgarden%26ref_%3Dbl%5Fsr%5Fkitchen%26field-brandtextbin%3DKeurig&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">Keurig coffee maker</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> are a growing trend amongst many coffee drinkers as a way of reducing their caffeine consumption, but we would just switch to decaf coffee if we were concerned about caffeine addiction problems. We’ve never been espresso/cappuccino coffee drinkers, and hot tea never appealed to me, but we do love the taste of great coffee brewed at home.</p>
<p>You might think that the amount of coffee we drink everyday might lead us to buy a large commercial type coffee maker, perhaps one that brews upwards of 100 cups of coffee at a time, but that would be overkill. We’ve read review articles on various types of coffee makers that brew 10, 12 or 14 cups of coffee at a time for comparison purposes, and even checked out ratings on Consumer Reports.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;"><strong>What is the Best Home Coffee Maker?</strong></span></p>
<p>Trying to compare coffee makers for personal home use versus industrial sized coffee makers appropriate for business offices became somewhat frustrating. All we wanted to know is, What is the best home coffee maker on the market today? Until we began our search for a new coffee maker, it hadn’t occurred to me that there are so many brands of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FCoffee-Makers-Tea-Espresso-Kitchen%2Fb%3Fie%3DUTF8%26node%3D289744%26ref_%3Damb%5Flink%5F5842872%5F3&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">coffee machines</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> to choose from! DeLonghi, Cuisinart, Gaggia, Braun, Krups, Saeco, Capresso, Bunn, Sunbeam, Senseo, KitchenAid, Black and Decker, Mr. Coffee, Coleman, Jura and Zojirushi are the brands that come to mind. That’s a lot of competition for coffee makers, and each wants to be considered the best.</p>
<p>After reviewing customer reviews and online ratings for coffee makers, it became clear that deciding which coffee maker machine was the best is just a matter of opinion and personal experience. There also appears to be a certain amount of hype surrounding some coffee makers which caused some doubt in our minds as to the reliability and trustworthiness of some online reviews. However, if you’re interested in an honest, unbiased review of the <a title="Keurig Special Edition B60 Gourmet Single Serve Coffee Maker" href="http://coffeeteablog.com/keurig-special-edition-b60-gourmet-single-serve-coffee-maker/" target="_blank">Keurig Special Edition B60 Single Serve Coffee Maker</a>, I can personally vouch for the source.</p>
<p>A few years ago we had a <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26redirect%3Dtrue%26ref_%3Dsr%5Fnr%5Fp%5F4%5F5%26bbn%3D289744%26qid%3D1267396093%26rnid%3D15899471%26rh%3Dn%253A284507%252Cn%253A915194%252Cn%253A289744%252Cp%5F4%253ABunn&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">Bunn coffee maker</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> that worked like a champ until it was dropped and broken, and even though it can be a bit pricey, it was our favorite over all the other brands. The fact that a full pot of coffee was brewed and ready in two minutes flat was just one of the reasons why we chose the Bunn. That old saying “you get what you pay for” probably rings true when it comes to buying a good quality coffee maker.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;"><strong>Types of Coffee Makers</strong></span></p>
<p>I certainly wouldn’t attempt to convince anyone that one brand of coffee maker is better than the other, because there are many factors to consider in the selection process. Whether you buy an automatic drip coffee maker, manual drip, French press/Plunger Pot, stove top percolator, espresso/cappuccino/latte machine or pod coffee maker, consider your personal preferences of what you need your coffee maker to do and what features are important to you.</p>
<p>Should it have programmable settings? An automatic on/off safety feature? Brew interrupt/pause feature? What is your price range? Color preference? Amount of available space for the coffee maker? Do you need a space-saver undercabinet type coffee maker? Do you need a single or dual cup model, or perhaps a family size standard coffee maker with 8, 10, 12 or 14 cup options? Once you decide what features and options you want in a <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FCoffee-Makers-Tea-Espresso-Kitchen%2Fb%3Fie%3DUTF8%26node%3D289744%26ref_%3Damb%5Flink%5F5842872%5F3&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">coffee maker</a>, choosing the right one for your home or office becomes much easier.</p>
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		<title>Skype Webcam &#8211; What is the Best Webcam for Skype?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 11:00:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have been a Skype user for a long time now, keeping in contact with friends and family living in the U.S and abroad. One of my family members lives in Spain, and having Skype to at least instant message or chat while on different time zones has been great. Email only does so much, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!--INFOLINKS_ON--><!-- google_ad_section_start --><p>I have been a Skype user for a long time now, keeping in contact with friends and family living in the U.S and abroad. One of my family members lives in Spain, and having Skype to at least instant message or chat while on different time zones has been great. Email only does so much, but Skype is better. While instant messaging with Skype helps keep me closely connected with family and friends who don’t live nearby, instant messaging on Skype isn’t enough for me anymore.</p>
<p>I’ve known about webcams for Skype but hadn’t taken the time to learn how to use Skype with a webcam, and I needed to find out more about choosing a good webcam to use with Skype. I’ve heard there is a way to use a digital camera with Skype too, but using Skype on my home computer with a webcam is all that matters to me at this point.</p>
<p>What is Skype?</p>
<p><a onmouseover="window.status='http://www.skype.com';return true;" onmouseout="window.status=' ';return true;" href="http://www.dpbolvw.net/dg103cy63y5LOSONPNPLNMRTSNOM" target="_blank"><br />
<img style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" src="http://www.lduhtrp.net/51106iw-ousDGKGFHFHDFEJLKFGE" border="0" alt="" /></a> Skype’s free downloadable software allows you to talk, instant message and make video calls to other Skype users for FREE. <a onmouseover="window.status='http://www.skype.com';return true;" onmouseout="window.status=' ';return true;" href="http://www.kqzyfj.com/o398p-85-7NQUQPRPRNPOTVUUTQ" target="_blank"> <strong>Skype</strong></a><img src="http://www.ftjcfx.com/a6106iw-ousDGKGFHFHDFEJLKKJG" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> uses your broadband internet connection to make unlimited free voice and video calls over the internet through your computer. You can also call phones and mobile cell phones and send text messages at very cheap rates &#8211; a lot cheaper than typical long distance/international plans.</p>
<p>The “Skype Out” features allows users to <a onmouseover="window.status='http://www.skype.com';return true;" onmouseout="window.status=' ';return true;" href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/mg101biroiq58C87979576B86EBD" target="_blank">make cheap international calls with Skype</a><img src="http://www.awltovhc.com/o2115qmqeki36A65757354964C9B" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> to phones and mobile cell phones at a mere fraction of the cost of current international rates, and this is one of my favorite features since it allows me to call Spain for mere pennies. When my dad was diagnosed with <a title="Hodgkin's Lymphoma" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/07/hodgkins-lymphoma-hodgkins-disease-cancer-my-father.html" target="_self">Hodgkin&#8217;s Lymphoma</a> awhile back, calls were made from Spain to check on my dad’s health status and the total cost was just a few cents.</p>
<p>Why use Skype and Webcams for Skype?</p>
<p><a title="Webcam Dangers" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/07/the-dangers-of-webcams.html" target="_self">Webcam dangers</a> are a reality in this crazy world we live in, but there are some benefits to using a webcam that is hooked up and connected with Skype that I can’t pass up. There are many good, <a title="Reasons to Use a Webcam" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Webcam" target="_blank">valid reasons to use a webcam</a>, whether it is for business or personal use. Some people choose to use webcams to keep an eye on what is going on at their house while they are away. Military personnel stay closely connected with their husband, wife and/or children while they are working far away, perhaps overseas.</p>
<p>Others like to watch what their pets are doing in the backyard, and what problems or chaos the dog is creating back there. Some use webcams to watch their children at school, daycare or in the care of babysitters in their home. Grandparents can use webcams to see their grown children and grandchildren who live far away and stay connected via video conferencing, which is my primary reason for deciding to <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26x%3D0%26ref_%3Dnb%5Fsb%5Fnoss%26y%3D0%26field-keywords%3Dwebcam%2520%26url%3Dsearch-alias%253Delectronics&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">buy a webcam</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> to use with Skype.</p>
<p>Who should get Skype?</p>
<p>Anyone interested in staying connected with family and friends who don&#8217;t live nearby should <a onmouseover="window.status='http://www.skype.com';return true;" onmouseout="window.status=' ';return true;" href="http://www.jdoqocy.com/1e100tenkem14843535132798874" target="_blank">download Skype</a>. If you are wondering why you should get a webcam to use with Skype, especially if you are grandparent with grandchildren who live far away, understand that there are many advantages to using webcams to stay connected with family and friends. Having a webcam set up with Skype allows me to see my children and grandchildren on live video, and where they can also see Grandma and Grandpa talking to them too.</p>
<p>I’ve heard of some grandparents who use a webcam with Skype to read story books to their grandchildren, and grandparents are able to see their grandchild’s school report card and help with homework, amongst many other wonderful possibilities. My two grandkids are still too young to read <a title="Best Children's Books" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/08/101-best-childrens-books-classic-childrens-books.html" target="_self">children’s books</a> to via webcam, but having the ability to see my grandchildren grow and learn how to talk (and say Grandma, Grandpa, Nana or Papa) makes for some fun times on Skype.</p>
<p>What is the Best Webcam for Skype?</p>
<p>One of the best things about being on Facebook is the ability to get suggestions and recommendations from friends and family on any given product, and that includes our search for a new smartphone as well as finding the best webcam to buy to use with Skype. Webcam prices vary, and while we certainly wanted a good quality webcam with clear imagery, we didn’t want to spend a lot of money on the webcam.</p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-4245" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="Webcam for Skype" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/Webcam-for-Skype-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /> Thanks to some great advice from Shayne at <a title="GrandparentsTLC" href="http://grandparentstlc.com/blog/" target="_blank">GrandparentsTLC</a>, we were able to narrow down the webcam choices to a great quality <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26redirect%3Dtrue%26ref_%3Dsr%5Fkk%5F3%26keywords%3Dwebcam%2520with%2520microphone%26qid%3D1266508287%26rh%3Di%253Aelectronics%252Ck%253Awebcam%2520with%2520microphone&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">webcam with built-in microphone</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> that is very inexpensive and works extremely well with Skype. Since we weren’t knowledgeable about the differences between the more expensive webcams versus the cheap webcams (and how well the cheaper webcams would work), Shayne’s suggestions were a big help.</p>
<p>It would never have crossed my mind that there are different webcams to choose from depending on if you are a Mac user versus a Windows PC like we use. Since I’ve never used a Mac computer yet, despite knowing how popular they are, I didn’t need to find a compatible <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26x%3D0%26ref_%3Dnb%5Fsb%5Fnoss%26y%3D0%26field-keywords%3Dwebcam%2520mac%26url%3Dsearch-alias%253Delectronics&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">webcam for Mac</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> but I was able to tell a friend of mine about those since she is a Mac user.</p>
<p>If you are looking for a webcam to use with Skype, you don’t need to spend a lot of money on a webcam. The <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001BN1AJ0?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B001BN1AJ0">Macally IceCam webcam</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=B001BN1AJ0" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> we bought is inexpensive,  and it only took a few minutes to install and hook up the webcam to the computer and have it running perfectly with Skype. We didn’t have any problems getting the webcam to work right, and after testing the webcam on Skype a couple of times, our webcam was set and ready to video conference and chat on Skype with the kids, grandkids, friends and family that use Skype.</p>
<p>Aside from the <a title="Smartphones and Blackberry Phones" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2010/02/smartphones-blackberry-phones-medical-blackberry-and-iphone-smart-phones.html" target="_self">Blackberry smartphones</a> we recently bought, buying the webcam to use with Skype for the benefit of staying closely connected with the kids and grandchildren was money well spent. Every computer-user grandparent should <a onmouseover="window.status='http://www.skype.com';return true;" onmouseout="window.status=' ';return true;" href="http://www.jdoqocy.com/1e100tenkem14843535132798874" target="_blank">get Skype</a><img src="http://www.awltovhc.com/q0115h48x20MPTPOQOQMONSUTTSP" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> and get a webcam to use with Skype, in my opinion. Money very well spent.</p>
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		<title>Dental Care, Dental Emergency Treatment &amp; Taking Care of Your Teeth</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Although 72 percent of Americans have fillings, caps or crowns and one in six had a dental emergency during the past 12 months, most are not prepared to deal with dental care emergencies, according to a recent survey conducted by Majestic Drug Company, a leading provider of oral care products.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!--INFOLINKS_ON--><!-- google_ad_section_start --><p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-3212" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="Dental Emergency Care and Treatment" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/Free-Dental-Services-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /> Although 72 percent of Americans have fillings, caps or crowns and one in six had a dental emergency during the past 12 months, most are not prepared to deal with <a title="Dental Care Clinics" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/10/free-dental-care-clinics-how-to-get-low-cost-or-free-dental-treatment.html" target="_self">dental care emergencies</a>, according to a recent survey conducted by Majestic Drug Company, a leading provider of oral care products.</p>
<p>Interestingly, in the national survey of 1,000 Americans, those with a lower income (less then $35,000) were more likely to have had a dental emergency in the past 12 months (vs. 14 percent of those who make $100,000 or more).</p>
<p>Of those who had a dental emergency, 23 percent involved a loose crown or cap, 10 percent involved a lost filling, while 72 percent said their dental emergency involved something else.</p>
<p>Among those who had a dental emergency involving a loose crown/cap or a lost filling, 67 percent immediately went to a dentist, and 14 percent looked for a temporary solution to purchase, while 19 percent did nothing at the time.</p>
<p>“You keep medical supplies on hand for cuts and bruises, but what about your teeth? It’s important to be prepared for a dental emergency in case one happens, especially if  the emergency occurs on a weekend or holiday when your dentist isn’t available,” according to Brian Gold, D.D.S., who practices in Monticello, NY.</p>
<p>Dental emergencies can range from a dislodged cap/crown or lost filling to a knocked out tooth to pain or a cracked denture. Majestic Drug Company explains some common dental emergencies and suggestions for treatment.</p>
<ul>
<li>Knocked out tooth. If you knock out a permanent tooth try gently replacing it into the tooth socket. Do not scrub the tooth clean—you can damage the fibers needed for reattachment. If that doesn’t work, place the tooth in a glass of milk to keep it moist. <a title="How to Find a Dentist" href="http://healthfieldmedicare.suite101.com/article.cfm/how_to_find_a_dentist" target="_blank">Get to a dentist immediately</a>.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Mouth pain. A throbbing pain from a toothache may indicate an infection and a dentist should be consulted as soon as possible. Tooth sensitivity can be combated by the use of desensitizing toothpaste such as <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26x%3D0%26ref_%3Dnb%255Fsb%255Fnoss%26y%3D0%26field-keywords%3Dsensodyne%26url%3Dsearch-alias%253Dhpc&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">Sensodyne</a>. Irritation from mouth sores can be alleviated by the use of specialized oral pain relief products such as Orajel.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Lost filling. Rinse out the cavity with warm water. Apply a temporary filling product such as <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001GCVJF6?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B001GCVJF6">Dentemp O.S.</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=B001GCVJF6" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> which can be made into a ball and pressed firmly into the cavity.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Cracked or broken denture. According to Dr. Gold, all denture wearers should have a spare pair to use until the other is repaired. If not, it is good to keep on hand an emergency denture repair kit such as the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001GCVJD8?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B001GCVJD8">D.O.C. Emergency Denture Repair Kit</a> for an emergency involving a denture.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Dislodged cap/crown. Apply a temporary dental holding product such as <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001GCVJF6?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B001GCVJF6">Dentemp O.S.</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=B001GCVJF6" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> and gently replace the crown onto the tooth.  Make sure you get a proper fit.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Irritation from Braces. Sharp wires can be coated with special <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001RV3M6K?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B001RV3M6K">dental orthodontic wax</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=B001RV3M6K" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> to protect your gums.</li>
</ul>
<p>Remember, temporary dental solutions are just that—they are temporary. Make sure to seek professional assistance from your dentist as soon as possible.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;">Health ‘Bites’: 8 Things You Didn’t Know About Your Teeth</span></p>
<p>Oral health is often the window to your overall health. Evidence has supported the link between poor oral health and such conditions as stroke, premature birth and diabetes. Other conditions, such as HIV/AIDS and osteoporosis may show preliminary signs in your mouth, before other areas of the body are affected. Also, some of your daily activities or habits such as <a title="How to Quit Smoking Cigarettes" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/10/how-to-quit-smoking-cigarettes-stop-smoking-for-good.html" target="_self">smoking</a> or using chewing tobacco can affect your oral health. Therefore, it’s wise to pay attention to your teeth and gums.</p>
<p>Brian Gold, D.D.S., Monticello NY, and consultant to Majestic Drug Company, a leading provider of oral care products, provides this valuable insight into oral hygiene.</p>
<p>1. Survey shows Americans unprepared for <a title="Dental Emergency" href="http://www.untwistedvortex.com/2008/04/03/my-latest-dental-emergency/" target="_blank">dental emergencies</a>. Although 72 percent of Americans have fillings, caps or crowns and one in six had a dental emergency during the past 12 months, most are not prepared to deal with a dental emergency, according to the survey conducted by Majestic Drug Company. It’s wise to have a product such as <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001GCVJF6?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B001GCVJF6">Dentemp O.S.</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=B001GCVJF6" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> on hand as a temporary repair for loose caps or lost fillings.</p>
<p>2. Bulimia and acid reflux can destroy tooth enamel. Bulimics are often able to hide the disorder from others but not from their dentist.  Enamel erosion is a major sign of bulimic behavior. And acid reflux, whereby stomach acid flows into the esophagus and mouth, can cause tooth and gum erosion (possibly requiring <a title="Tooth Extraction and Cosmetic Dentistry Plans" href="http://www.untwistedvortex.com/2010/02/12/tooth-extractions-cosmetic-dentistry-plans/" target="_blank">tooth extraction</a> and expensive restorative dental care).</p>
<p>3. Soda and citrus drink overuse can be caustic to tooth enamel. The average American drinks more than 53 gallons of soft drinks each year, more than any other beverage including milk, <a title="What is the Best Tasting Beer in the World?" href="http://grandmastories.net/2009/12/what-is-the-best-tasting-beer-in-the-world.html" target="_blank">beer</a>, <a title="Give Up Coffee? Why Should I Stop Drinking Coffee" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/11/give-up-coffee-why-should-i-stop-drinking-coffee.html" target="_self">coffee</a> or water. Phosphoric acid in soda and citric acid in citrus drinks can cause tooth enamel corrosion and the sugar can cause cavities.</p>
<p>4. Excessive chlorine in swimming pools can erode tooth enamel. This can make your teeth more sensitive to heat and cold.</p>
<p>5. Many people don’t know they have bad breath. Dr. Gold suggests this test: Using dental floss or a tongue scrapper, sniff either the floss or the scrapper. If your mouth is clean, you won’t have a telltale smell.</p>
<p>6. Infection and trauma can cause tooth enamel defects. Nutritional deficiencies during infancy, antibiotic use such as tetracycline, high fever, and trauma can all lead to tooth enamel irregularities such as <em>pitting</em>.</p>
<p>7. Eighty percent of Americans over the age of 35 have some form of gum disease. It can range from simple gum inflammation, called gingivitis, to serious disease that results in damage to the bone.</p>
<p>8. One in four adults age 60 and older has lost all of his/her teeth. A good oral hygiene program should include twice daily brushing, flossing, eating a balanced diet, limiting between-meal snacks and regular visits to your dentist for professional cleaning and oral exams.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;">How to Make a Dental First Aid Kit</span></p>
<p>Nearly every household has some sort of a first aid kit filled with bandages, antiseptic, ointments and the like. But how many people plan ahead for dental emergencies?</p>
<p>“You keep medical supplies on hand for cuts and bruises, but what about your teeth? It’s important to be prepared for a dental emergency in case one happens, especially if the emergency occurs on a weekend or holiday when your dentist isn’t available,” according to Brian Gold, D.D.S., who practices in Monticello, NY.</p>
<p>While an <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001MA316C?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B001MA316C">emergency dental kit</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=B001MA316C" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> can never replace the care of a dentist, it can ease the pain and discomfort until you get to your dentist. Majestic Drug Company suggests keeping the following items on hand for a dental emergency and placing them in a convenient container for easy access.</p>
<ul>
<li>Temporary dental cement such as Dentemp® O.S. which can be used to temporarily replace a filling or secure a crown.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li> A dental pain reliever that contains benzocaine or oil of cloves such as Orajel.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li> Sensitive teeth can be treated with special toothpaste such as Sensodyne or Sensitive.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li> Ibuprofen such as Advil or Motrin can ease the pain from the affected tooth.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li> Keep soft dental floss such as Glide or Reach on hand.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li> For anyone with dentures a denture repair product, such as <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001GCVJD8?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B001GCVJD8">D.O.C® Denture Repair Kit</a>, is a must-have.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li> Tweezers</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li> Gauze</li>
</ul>
<p>For additional information please visit Majestic Drug Company at www.majesticdrug.com.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Ever since I published the 30 Day Sex Challenge, I’ve heard from quite a few women who say they don’t want to have sex with their husbands, while offering a large number of reasons why they don&#8217;t want to have sex. I’ve also heard from a number of men who want more sex with [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!--INFOLINKS_ON--><!-- google_ad_section_start --><p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-3821" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="Reasons Why Women Don't Want Sex" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/Reasons-Why-Women-Dont-Want-Sex-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /> Ever since I published the <a title="30 Day Sex Challenge" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/12/sex-every-day-for-married-couples-30-day-sex-challenge.html" target="_self">30 Day Sex Challenge</a>, I’ve heard from quite a few women who say they don’t want to have sex with their husbands, while offering a large number of reasons why they don&#8217;t want to have sex. I’ve also heard from a number of men who want more sex with their wife but can’t seem to figure out why the sex isn’t happening as frequently as these guys would like. “Is having sex once every 3-9 months normal?”, one husband asked.</p>
<p>“I don’t want to have sex” and “she doesn’t want to have sex” were the common subject titles from women and men who are reporting sexual dysfunction and low libido in their marriages. Most, if not all, were asking “is it normal” to not want to have sex very often (or at all), and what possible reasons there might be for their wives to not be interested in having sex. They also wanted to know how often married couples are “supposed to have sex” to <a title="Keeping The Fire Alive in Your Marriage" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/02/keeping-the-fire-alive-in-your-marriage.html" target="_self">keep the fire alive in their marriage</a>, and some wives reported their husbands “weren’t doing it right”. Ouch.</p>
<p>It came as somewhat of a surprise to me that some women said their husbands don’t know <a title="How to Please a Woman in Bed" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/08/how-to-please-a-woman-in-bed-pleasure-and-satisfy-her-completely.html" target="_self">how to please a woman in bed</a> and can’t bring her to orgasm, but these same women admit to never (ever) telling or showing their husbands what they want or need in bed to be completely satisfied sexually. Really? Come on, ladies, it works both ways. Men aren’t mind readers and most men DO want to please their wives in bed, but if you have never talked with your husband about your <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0800717880?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0800717880">personal desires or sexual needs</a>, <a title="communication in marriage" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/01/why-are-women-so-strange-and-men-so-weird.html" target="_self">communication in your marriage</a> is a problem to work on. Today.</p>
<p>The common sexual frequency questions, “What is normal?”, “How many times do married couples have sex?”, and “How much sex is enough sex?” was answered by the Kinsey Institute. On average, 18-29 year-olds have sex 112 times per year, 30-39 year-olds have sex 86 times per year, and 40-49 year-olds have sex 69 times per year. 13% of married couples are said to have sex just a few times per year; 45% a few times per month; 34% 2-3 times a week, and 7% 4 or more times per week. Do the math. How does your sex life match up with the statistics?</p>
<p>In my article about <a title="Spice Up Your Marriage" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/04/how-to-spice-up-your-marriage-fun-and-easy-ways-to-add-romance-to-your-relationship.html" target="_self">ways to spice up your marriage</a>, the importance of sex in marriage and making sex fun and exciting (vs. boring and dull) for married couples cannot be overemphasized. While sex may not be the most important part of marriage, sex becomes a huge problem in marriage if husbands or wives want sex but aren’t “getting any”. Sadly, several of the men who contacted me did so after reading my article about <a title="Regret Getting Married" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/01/a-marriage-without-regrets-do-you-regret-getting-married.html" target="_self">regretting getting married</a> because of virtually no sex and are seriously considering divorce as their only option. Not only do these husbands say they regret getting married in the first place, these men swear they <a title="Why Men Don't Want to Get Married" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/07/do-men-want-to-get-married-top-ten-reasons-why-men-don%E2%80%99t-want-to-get-married.html" target="_self">don’t want to get married ever again</a> because of the sex problems they’ve experienced.</p>
<p>The fastest way to increase libido and start having more sex is to…have more sex! That alone is the reason for men AND women to at least explore the idea of the “sex every day sex challenge” for thirty days! If the men and women I have heard from is any indication of the heartbreaking reality of having a mostly sexless marriage that can easily become a <a title="Relationship Deal Breaker" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/01/relationship-deal-breakers-non-negotiable-boundaries.html" target="_self">deal breaker</a>, both husbands and wives need to not only understand the reasons why some women don’t want to have sex but also work together to find ways to increase sexual desire, libido and satisfaction. Before it’s too late.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;"><strong>Reasons Why Women Don’t Want Sex</strong></span></p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-3831" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="What a Woman Wants" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/What-a-Woman-Wants-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /> According to a study by University of Chicago Medical Center (published in the New England Journal of Medicine), researcher Dr. Edward Laumann concluded that some 43 percent of women suffer with sexual dysfunction, compared to 31 percent of men. Interviews were held with 1,550 sexually active women where 43 percent reported low libido, 39 percent said they had vaginal dryness problems, and 34 percent said they were unable to reach orgasm. Expert researchers have also found that while sexual activity declines somewhat with age, many women (and men) are enjoying sex well into their 60s, 70s, and 80s.</p>
<p>Some of the well known reasons for low libido or lack of interest in sex are: Diabetes, thyroid disease, anemia, childbirth, hormones, lack of sensation due to decreased muscle tone “down there”, painful intercourse, menopause, hysterectomy, and any medical problems that affect the sex hormones estrogen or testosterone can all result in a decreased sex drive. Other causes may be aging, unhealthy diets, excess weight or obesity, stressful lifestyles, depression, anxiety and other emotional problems, or a combination of physical or psychological factors.</p>
<p>&#8220;Female sexual dysfunction is characterized by a lack of desire, arousal and orgasm. Lack of desire is the chief complaint among women, affecting about one-third of them at some point in their lives&#8221;, says Cindy Meston, assistant professor of clinical psychology at the University of Texas at Austin. Recent studies have focused on various aspects of female sexuality, including hormone levels, libido, how pregnancy and menopause affect a woman’s sexuality and interest in sex, and <a title="Body Image - The Pressure to Be Thin" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/11/female-body-image-in-the-media-the-pressure-to-be-thin-in-society.html" target="_self">body image</a>.</p>
<p>There are hundreds of possible reasons why women may not want sex, but <a href="http://blogs.webmd.com/sexual-health-sex-matters/2006/07/top-10-reasons-women-dont-want-sex.html" target="_blank">WebMD.com</a> listed what it says are the top ten reasons why women don’t want to have sex, which include both physical and psychological reasons:</p>
<p>1. Use of Oral Contraceptives<br />
2. Use of Anti-Depressants<br />
3. Breastfeeding<br />
4. Lack of sleep<br />
5. Stress<br />
6. <a title="How to Fight Fair in Marriage" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/06/how-to-fight-fair-in-marriage.html" target="_self">Disagreements with one’s mate</a>.<br />
7. Low levels of testosterone<br />
8. High levels of HSBG (sex hormone binding globulin)<br />
9. Fear of intimacy<br />
10. Body image</p>
<p>A woman&#8217;s lack of sexual interest is often tied to her relationship with her partner, says Sandra Lieblum, director for sexual and marital health at the UMDNJ Robert Wood Johnson Medical School in Piscataway, N.J. &#8220;The important sex organ (for women) is between the ears. Men need a place for having sex — women need a purpose,&#8221; she says. Lack of interest in sex can also be triggered by <a title="Family Relationship Problems" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/08/toxic-relationships-toxic-family-members.html" target="_self">family problems</a>, illness or death, <a title="Financial Goals" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/12/2010-top-ten-new-year%E2%80%99s-resolutions.html" target="_self">financial or job worries</a>, <a title="In Law Problems" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/06/how-to-get-along-with-the-in-laws-dealing-with-in-laws-and-extended-family.html" target="_self">in-law problems</a>, childcare responsibilities, managing a career and children, previous or current <a title="Domestic Violence Against Women" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/02/inside-the-minds-of-angry-controlling-and-abusive-men.html" target="_self">physical and/or emotional abuse</a>, past history of <a title="Sexual Abuse" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/04/child-sexual-abuse-facts-vs-myths.html" target="_self">sexual abuse</a>, fatigue and depression.</p>
<p>“Loss of libido in women, or low sexual desire, is the most common sexual problem for women and the main reason they seek sex therapy,&#8221; says Patricia Koch, Ph.D., Associate Professor of Biobehavioral Health &amp; Women&#8217;s Studies at Pennsylvania State University and Adjunct Professor of Human Sexuality at Widener University. &#8220;It affects anywhere from 33% to 67% of women, depending on how sexual desire is defined and reported,&#8221; according to Koch, whose research specializes in loss of libido in women.</p>
<p>&#8220;Don&#8217;t call loss of libido a disorder,&#8221; Laumann says. &#8220;How can it be a dysfunction if one-third of women, no matter what their age, report that they lose interest? &#8220;This is normal&#8221; he says, and a growing number of researchers agree. &#8220;Low sexual desire is not a disease, it is the understandable result of an imbalance in your life&#8230;in your relationship, your life circumstances or your body,&#8221; writes Kathryn Hall, Ph.D. in <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0471274275?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0471274275">Reclaiming Your Sexual Self: How You Can Bring Desire Back Into Your Life</a></em>.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;"><strong>Libido Enhancers, Natural Aphrodisiacs, Female Enhancement Creams</strong></span></p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-3841" style="float: right; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="How to Please a Woman in Bed" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/How-to-Please-a-Woman-in-Bed1-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /> If decreased sexual arousal or lack of sex in your marriage is distressing you, rule out any possible health related problems with your doctor or OB/GYN. Have your hormone levels checked by having your doctor run blood tests, especially if you are menopausal or have had a hysterectomy. Ask your doctor about a trial of testosterone cream &#8211; some women like it, while others don’t.</p>
<p>There are many <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26redirect%3Dtrue%26ref_%3Dsr%255Fnr%255Fi%255F1%26keywords%3Dlibido%2520enhancer%2520for%2520women%26qid%3D1264911898%26rh%3Di%253Ahpc%252Ck%253Alibido%2520enhancer%2520for%2520women&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">libido enhancer</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> products for women on the market, with many receiving raving reviews by sexually satisfied women (and their husbands), <em>wink wink</em>. That makes for a win-win for any marriage experiencing sex problems or lack of libido, regardless of the cause. Try Laura Corn’s book <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0962962813?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0962962813">101 Nights of Grrreat Sex</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0962962813" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></em> for some sexy, seductive tips.</p>
<p>Get your Mojo back and have some fun with <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26redirect%3Dtrue%26ref_%3Dsr%255Fnr%255Fi%255F0%26keywords%3Dsexy%2520lingerie%26qid%3D1264912233%26rh%3Di%253Aapparel%252Ck%253Asexy%2520lingerie&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">sexy lingerie</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> your man will LOVE (regardless of your body size or weight), <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FSex-Toys-Adult-Games%2Fb%3Fie%3DUTF8%26node%3D3777811%26ref_%3Damb%255Flink%255F83686011%255F12&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">sex toys</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fb%3Fie%3DUTF8%26node%3D3777801%26ref_%3Damb%255Flink%255F83686011%255F30&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">sexy marriage games</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> to add some new life and spice to your marriage. Try out natural aphrodisiacs for women that come in tablets, capsules, gels, creams and lubricants that work wonders to boost a woman’s sex drive and pleasure. <strong><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26redirect%3Dtrue%26ref_%3Dsr%255Fnr%255Fi%255F0%26keywords%3Dzestra%26qid%3D1264906276%26rh%3Di%253Ahpc%252Ck%253Azestra&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">Zestra</a></strong><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> is one of many sexual arousal aids getting rave reviews, and it’s even been discussed on talk shows like Tyra Banks and the Rachel Ray Show, amongst others.</p>
<p>Show your husband where your personal “pleasure map” is for your body, and teach your man how to “do it right” for you and teach him (if necessary) the desired techniques to pleasure you and satisfy you completely. Guys, be open to suggestions from your wife and don’t let your ego get in the way of having a satisfying sex life with your spouse if she tells you in some way that you’re not doing it right. Listen….and listen good. Ladies, speak up and tell your man what you want in bed! Better yet, show him… and you’ll both have a great time discovering each other all over again.</p>
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		<title>Abused Men: Battered and Emotionally Abused Male Victims of Domestic Violence</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[ Abused men are men and teenage boys who are in physically, mentally and emotionally abusive relationships involving partners, girlfriends or wives. Men who are abused do not get the respect, understanding, encouragement or support from society as a whole and are often criticized and ridiculed unfairly, further victimizing men who are abused.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!--INFOLINKS_ON--><!-- google_ad_section_start --><p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-3598" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="Abused Men" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/Abused-Men-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /> Abused men are men and teenage boys who are in physically, mentally and emotionally abusive relationships involving partners, girlfriends or wives. Men who are abused do not get the respect, understanding, encouragement or support from society as a whole and are often criticized and ridiculed unfairly, further victimizing men who are abused.</p>
<p>Victims of domestic violence are not just women, wives or girlfriends. Domestic violence occurs with men too, and it’s about time abused men and society in general wake up to the alarming statistics about women, girlfriends and wives who abuse men and stop turning a deaf ear to the abuse men are experiencing.</p>
<p>Boyfriend and husband abuse is a reality in society and men who are abused by women need help, encouragement and support just as much as <a title="Married to an Abuser" href="http://marriage.suite101.com/article.cfm/married_to_an_abuser" target="_blank">abused women</a> do. Domestic violence against men, and abusive relationships of all types, do not discriminate and abuse occurs in all ethnic, racial and socio-economic groups.</p>
<p>When you hear the words “domestic violence” and physical, mental and/or emotional abuse, do you tend to think about women or girls who has been slapped, hit, punched, kicked, bullied, ridiculed, degraded, criticized and humiliated by a man? <a title="Domestic Violence Against Women" href="http://divorce.suite101.com/article.cfm/getting_a_divorce" target="_blank">Domestic violence against women</a> by men who claim to love them has been a serious problem for a very long time, but what about the men? What about men who are abused by women? Why do abused men stay in abusive relationships if it’s so bad, you may wonder.</p>
<p>Some women, girlfriends and wives are physically, mentally and emotionally aggressive in relationships with their boyfriends, partners or husbands. Abused men rarely come forward to share their experiences as domestic abuse victims because of fear. Abused men stay in abusive relationships and marriages for much the same reasons <a title="Why Abused Women Stay" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2007/09/why-do-abused-woman-stay-my-story.html" target="_self">abused woman stay</a>, with fear being the primary reason.</p>
<p>Men who are abused are often afraid of being stigmatized by others with fear of being labeled a dependent, spineless <a title="People Pleasers and Doormats" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2010/01/people-pleasers-and-doormats-care-what-people-think-about-them.html" target="_self">doormat</a>, passive-aggressive “wimp” or “whipped” man with low self-worth. Men who are abused are often too afraid to tell or admit to others that they are being mentally or emotionally abused, if not physically, and view telling as a loss of their manhood.</p>
<p>The statistics for abused men who are beaten or battered by the women who claim to love them say that men are abused more than women are abused, battered, beaten and bruised by men. Unfortunately, physically abused and battered men tend not to call the police or report the abuse they have suffered at the hands of girlfriends or wives, and even when these men do call the police to report the violence, they&#8217;re pleas for help are often ignored.</p>
<p>The myths about abused men are astounding. Teen boys and men who are abused need to identify and recognize the warning signs of abusive relationships and take action. Love Doesn’t Hurt. Teenage girls, women or wives who are physical, emotional or psychological abusers gradually chip away at a man’s feelings of self-worth and independence in the same way <a title="Inside the Minds of Angry, Controlling, Abusive Men" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/02/inside-the-minds-of-angry-controlling-and-abusive-men.html" target="_self">angry, controlling, abusive men</a> act towards women.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;"><strong>Emotionally Abused Men</strong></span></p>
<p>Male victims of emotional abuse may feel that there is no way out of the relationship or marriage, often ignoring the symptoms that they are in an emotionally abusive relationship that can so quickly become physically abusive. Emotional abuse includes verbal attacks such as yelling, blaming, ridiculing, name-calling, intimidation, controlling behaviors, isolation from family or friends, shaming, threats of physical violence and more. Abuse of any kind &#8211; physical, mental or emotional abuse is an absolute <a title="Relationship Deal Breaker" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/01/relationship-deal-breakers-non-negotiable-boundaries.html" target="_self">deal breaker</a> in my book and should be for anyone who experiences domestic violence in some form or fashion.</p>
<p>The scars of having been emotionally abused are very real and run very, very deep. Emotional abuse often escalates to the point of physical abuse and battery. Even death. Abusers do not change. Let me repeat that: Abusers do not change, and if you are a man or teenage boy who feels he must “walk on eggshells” around his partner, girlfriend or wife in order to “keep the peace” and try to prevent her from having a conniption fit about everything or anything &#8211; you are very likely in an unhealthy, controlling, abusive relationship and need to get out now.</p>
<p>See <a title="Toxic Relationships" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/08/toxic-relationships-toxic-family-members.html" target="_self">Toxic Relationships-Toxic Family Members</a> for help figuring out if your girlfriend or wife is toxic or not.</p>
<p>There are many signs of an emotionally abusive relationship, and they are much the same as those that apply to women who are abused by men. Physically or emotionally abused men must not be allow abusive women to control them any longer. Not for one more minute, not for one more hour, and definitely not for one more day of their lives.</p>
<p>Having heard from several men who felt they were <a title="Marriage Regret" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/01/a-marriage-without-regrets-do-you-regret-getting-married.html" target="_self">pressured into marriage</a> by emotionally abusive girlfriends, plus having written articles about women abused by men, I feel a responsibility and desire to address the issues involving abused men.</p>
<p>Just as I recommended to these men that they read the book, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0275958620?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0275958620">Abused Men: The Hidden Side of Domestic Violence</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0275958620" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> authored by Phillip W. Cook, I implore and strongly suggest that men who feel they are being physically, mentally or emotionally abused by a partner, girlfriend or wife to not only read the abused men book but also seek help now. Your very life may depend on it.</p>
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		<title>Diet Books &#8211; Best New Weight Loss Diet Books</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Diet books are popular for people wanting to lose weight. Whether weight loss or fitness goals are achieved by joining a gym to help lose weight or if working out at home is preferred, diet books can help motivate and inspire people to get moving and lose weight once and for all. For many people, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!--INFOLINKS_ON--><!-- google_ad_section_start --><p>Diet books are popular for people wanting to lose weight. Whether weight loss or fitness goals are achieved by <a title="Join a Gym or Workout At Home" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2010/01/join-a-gym-or-workout-at-home-exercise-for-beginners.html" target="_self">joining a gym to help lose weight or if working out at home</a> is preferred, diet books can help motivate and inspire people to get moving and lose weight once and for all. For many people, this is the time of year for self reflection and making <a title="2010 Top Ten New Years Resolutions" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/12/2010-top-ten-new-year%E2%80%99s-resolutions.html" target="_self">resolutions to lose weight</a> and start an exercise program. Diet books are a great asset towards weight loss and healthier living, but diet books won&#8217;t do the work of losing weight and getting fit for you.</p>
<p>Reading some of the best diet books to help in achieving your goal to lose weight, exercise, get fit and live a healthy lifestyle includes several <strong>new diets books</strong> listed on the <a title="New York Times Best Selling Children's Books" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/09/best-selling-children%E2%80%99s-books-new-york-times-children%E2%80%99s-books-best-seller-list.html" target="_self">New York Times best seller list</a> for weight loss. Listed below are a total of 20 diet books that are amongst the most popular, best selling and best rated diet books in the effort to lose weight.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;"><strong>Best Diet Books of 2009</strong></span></p>
<p style="text-align: left; padding: 0 0 20px 0;"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3688" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="Eat This Not That" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/Eat-This-Not-That.jpg" alt="" width="99" height="97" /> 1. <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1605298387?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1605298387">Eat This Not That! Supermarket Survival Guide</a></em><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1605298387" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by David Zincenko and Matt Goulding was the <strong>best selling diet book in 2009</strong> as is just one of the very popular diet books included in the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fgp%2Fentity%2FDavid-Zinczenko%2FB001ILKBL8%3Fie%3DUTF8%26ref_%3Dsr%255Fntt%255Fsrch%255Flnk%255F1%26qid%3D1262638963%26sr%3D1-1&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">Eat This Not That</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> series. This diet book includes nutrition tips and advice on which aisles in the grocery store are the best and which to avoid, with focus on healthy eating habits. Advice on how to decode and understand food labels, tips on selecting and choosing the healthiest foods for you and your family to eat to help you lose weight, save money and live a healthy lifestyle. This must read diet book offers practical lists and information about the 20 Worst Foods in the Supermarket, the Ultimate Supermarket Label Decoder, 17 Secrets the Food Industry Doesn&#8217;t Want You to Know, Shop Once, Eat for a Week and How to Stock the Perfect Pantry.</p>
<p style="text-align: left; padding: 0 0 20px 0;"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3690" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="Cook Yourself Thin" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/Cook-Yourself-Thin.jpg" alt="" width="82" height="100" /> 2. <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1401341136?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1401341136">Cook Yourself Thin</a></em><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1401341136" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by the ladies of the popular Lifetime Television reality show &#8220;Cook Yourself Thin” also made it to the NY Times bestseller list, and the newly released diet book <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1401341381?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1401341381">Cook Yourself Thin Faster</a></em><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1401341381" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> authored by Lifetime Television and Lauren Deen. The &#8220;Cook Yourself Thin: Skinny Meals You Can Make in Minutes&#8221; cookbook includes 80 easy recipes of breakfast meals, dinner entrees and dessert dishes; helpful tips on how to cut calories from comfort foods (like carbs) and how to bake with healthy, low-fat ingredients for a healthier and skinnier you.</p>
<p style="text-align: left; padding: 0 0 20px 0;"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3691" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="Hungry Girl 200 Under 200" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/Hungry-Girl-200-Under-200.jpg" alt="" width="89" height="121" /> 3. <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0312556179?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0312556179">Hungry Girl: 200 Under 200</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0312556179" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></em> by Lisa Lillien is number three on the list of best selling diet books for 2009 with two hundred healthy recipes all under 200 calories. New York Times bestselling author Lisa Lillien’s <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fgp%2Fentity%2FLisa-Lillien%2FB001JS8OM8%3Fie%3DUTF8%26ref_%3Dntt%255Fathr%255Fdp%255Fpel%255F1&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">Hungry Girl</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></em> book series is a phenomenal success, including notable books including Hungry Girl: Recipes and Survival Strategies for Guilt-free Eating in the Real World; Hungry Girl Chew the Right Thing; Hungry Girl Official Survival Guides, and her soon to be released Hungry Girl 1-2-3 book which can be ordered for its release in March 2010. Lillien’s low-fat, low-cal cookbooks follow the popular Weight Watcher diet point-based system, with focus on healthy cooking and recipes with built-in portion control.</p>
<p style="text-align: left; padding: 0 0 20px 0;"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3692" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="Master Your Metabolism" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/Master-Your-Metabolism.jpg" alt="" width="80" height="121" />4. <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0307450732?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0307450732">Master Your Metabolism</a></em><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0307450732" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Jillian Michaels, diet guru and strength trainer from the NBC hit television show The Biggest Loser teaches Michaels&#8217; philosophies on the importance of healthy dieting, weight loss and exercise. Michaels’ book centers around the three “R’s” program: Remove, Restore and Rebalance, and includes nutritional tips, the dangers of food additives and processed foods and the importance of taking back control of your hormones naturally in order to make your metabolism work for you rather than against you. The <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26sort%3Drelevancerank%26search-alias%3Dbooks%26ref_%3Dntt%255Fathr%255Fdp%255Fsr%255F2%26field-author%3DThe%2520Biggest%2520Loser%2520Experts%2520and%2520Cast&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">Biggest Loser books</a></em><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> and cookbooks, and books by this highly respected and top selling fitness and weight loss expert Jillian Michaels, should be on everyone’s must read list for this year.</p>
<p style="text-align: left; padding: 0 0 20px 0;"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3693" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="The End of Overeating" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/The-End-of-Overeating.jpg" alt="" width="79" height="121" /> 5. <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1605297852?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1605297852">The End of Overeating</a></em><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1605297852" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Dr. David Kessler, former commissioner for the FDA, explains why the problem of obesity in America is growing amongst adults and children rather than decreasing. Kessler’s book examines how the composition of packaged and processed foods, ingredients, additives, portion sizes, brain chemistry, the desire and tendency to overeat are stimulated in the brain by diabolical combinations of salt, fat and sugar. Kessler says conditioned hypereating is a biological challenge and not a character flaw, and explains how the food industry along with the advertising industry are in collusion with each other making Americans fat, and how the lack of willpower is not necessarily responsible or to blame for overweight or obese people of all ages. Although this book does not provide or recommend any specific diet plan to follow, it does bring greater awareness and understanding of the Who, What, When, Where, Why, And How of the foods we choose to eat.</p>
<p style="text-align: left; padding: 0 0 20px 0;"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3694" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="Naturally Thin" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/Naturally-Thin.jpg" alt="" width="80" height="121" /> 6. <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1416597980?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1416597980">Naturally Thin</a></em><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1416597980" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Bethenny Frankel, best known from reality TV’s The Real Housewives of New York City. Frankel, a &#8220;natural foods chef&#8221; and entrepreneur has written her own diet book to help bring out the healthier, skinny girl in you with tips and advice on changing some eating habits and learning how &#8220;to think like a naturally thin person”, thereby freeing yourself of a lifetime of dieting and yo-yo dieting. This popular book includes 30 healthy recipes, exercise recommendations and health tips from celebrities like Charles Barclay and Kathy Hilton, with suggestions on how to reduce stress that can lead to binging and overeating. You will learn how to select foods high in volume and fiber but low in calories; how to distinguish the difference between real hunger and non-food related hunger (emotional eating), and ways to enjoy your favorite food cravings with guiltless moderation.</p>
<p style="text-align: left; padding: 0 0 20px 0;"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3695" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="The 4 Day Diet" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/The-4-Day-Diet.jpg" alt="" width="80" height="121" /> 7. <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0312373589?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0312373589">The 4 Day Diet</a></em><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0312373589" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Dr. Ian K. Smith, the expert weight loss expert and mastermind behind the extremely popular The Fat Smash Diet, Extreme Fat Smash Diet and VH1&#8217;s Celebrity Fit Club makes the list of best diet books once again. Dr. Ian Smith says diets do work, contrary to popular belief, saying millions of pounds have been lost by dieters following his diet plans and reading his diet books across America. In his newest diet book, The 4 Day Diet, Smith’s program helps readers avoid the typical (and sometimes fatal) pitfalls of dieting: boredom, no treats allowed, too much repetition and plateaus.  Based on Dr. Smith’s 80-20 rule: dieting is 80% mental and 20% physical, The 4 Day Diet has 60+ recipes for this month-long program of dieting modules made of seven, four-day phases that can be customized to specific dieting objectives.</p>
<p style="text-align: left; padding: 0 0 20px 0;"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3698" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="You On A Diet" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/You-On-A-Diet1.jpg" alt="" width="75" height="75" /> 8. <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1439164967?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1439164967">YOU On A Diet</a></em><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1439164967" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by America’s most trusted, favorite diet doctor team and New York Times bestselling authors of the YOU series, Michael Roizen and Dr. Oz (Mehmet Oz). In this popular diet book, Roizen and Oz will invigorate and inspire you with information, motivation, and change-your-life action plans to show you how your brain, stomach, hormones, muscles, heart, genetics, and stress levels all interact biologically to determine if your body is the size of a baseball bat or of a baseball stadium. YOU: On a Diet is much more than a diet book or a diet plan: It&#8217;s a complete manual for waist management. To me, <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1439164967?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1439164967">YOU On A Diet</a></em><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1439164967" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> is “Dieting 101 for Beginners&#8221;, and is absolutely a <strong>MUST READ</strong>!</p>
<p style="text-align: left; padding: 0 0 20px 0;"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3699" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="The G Free Diet" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/The-G-Free-Diet.jpg" alt="" width="75" height="75" /> 9. <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1599951886?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1599951886">The G-Free Diet: A Gluten-Free Survival Guide</a></em><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1599951886" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Elisabeth Hasselbeck, best selling diet book by co-host of ABC’s The View, is a plan for people suffering from celiac disease. Hasselbeck’s G Free Diet is intended for those who have intolerance to wheat, rye and barley, which Elisabeth discovered she had gluten-intolerance after spending years trying to find out what was making her sick. Following her appearance on the Survivor TV show, she discovered her intolerance to gluten and how ingesting gluten was causing her to have some of the most common symptoms of gluten intolerance, commonly referred to as celiac disease. Elisabeth Hasselbeck’s book helps highlight the benefits that can also be derived by people who do not have gluten intolerance, plus treatment and prevention tips for those currently dealing with celiac disease.</p>
<p style="text-align: left; padding: 0 0 20px 0;"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3700" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="Born Round" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/Born-Round.jpg" alt="" width="75" height="75" /> 10. <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1594202311?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1594202311">Born Round: The Secret History of a Full-time Eater</a></em><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1594202311" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by NY Times restaurant critic Frank Bruni, reveals his brutally honest, yet dangerous love affair with food that involves bulimia, binge eating, nighttime eating and laxative abuse. Frank’s personal battle of the bulge is what helped him land the most influential job in the world of food, being the restaurant critic for the New York Times. There aren’t many books available that deal with what it’s like for a grown man to have an eating disorder, and when you consider how we typically think of <a title="Childhood Obesity" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/tag/childhood-obesity" target="_self">obesity</a> and eating disorders primarily involving children, teenagers and women in society, Bruni’s top selling book about his experience with an eating disorder is a must read.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;"><strong>Top 10 New Diet Books and Weight Loss Books</strong></span></p>
<p>Below is the list of <strong>new diet books</strong> and “notable” weight loss books to watch for in 2010, according to the New York Times.</p>
<p>1. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0761154930?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0761154930">The Big Breakfast Diet</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0761154930" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Daniela Jakubowicz<br />
2. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0312595409?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0312595409">The Brown Fat Revolution</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0312595409" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by James Lyons<br />
3. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1608320030?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1608320030">Eat What You Love, Love What You Eat</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1608320030" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Michelle May<br />
4. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0373892071?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0373892071">Eat Your Way To Happiness</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0373892071" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Elizabeth Somer<br />
5. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0738213667?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0738213667">Fat Flush for Life</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0738213667" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Ann Louise Gittleman<br />
6. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1605296449?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1605296449">The Kind Diet</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1605296449" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Alicia Silverstone<br />
7. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1561486760?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1561486760">The Mayo Clinic Diet</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1561486760" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by The Mayo Clinic<br />
8. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0061834882?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0061834882">The New ME Diet</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0061834882" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Jade Teta and Keoni Teta<br />
9. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1581827040?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1581827040">The Perfect 10 Diet</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1581827040" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Michael Aziz<br />
10. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0061665754?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0061665754">Your Inner Skinny</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0061665754" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Joy Bauer</p>
<p>It will be interesting to see how many of the new diet books make it on the New York Times bestseller list for 2010. Weight loss and exercise is on my list of goals for 2010. Some of these diet books are on my nightstand waiting to be read, once I finish reading YOU On A Diet, but I have my eye on a couple more since reading a few reviews.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jan 2010 11:00:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Should you join a gym or workout at home if you want to lose weight? Do you really need to join a gym or not? Can women lose weight without a gym membership or should you buy gym equipment and exercise at home? Which is better, yoga or aerobics for weight loss? Who says you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!--INFOLINKS_ON--><!-- google_ad_section_start --><p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-3586" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="Workout At Home" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/Workout-At-Home-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" />Should you join a gym or workout at home if you want to lose weight? Do you really need to join a gym or not? Can women lose weight without a gym membership or should you buy gym equipment and exercise at home? Which is better, yoga or aerobics for weight loss? Who says you can’t exercise without equipment?</p>
<p>These are just some of the questions that are often debated and discussed amongst friends and family, so it seems fitting that we begin the new year with discussions about losing weight, exercise routines, diet plans and getting fit. Personally, I hate the word “diet” in regards to wanting to lose weight and starting an exercise routine to help us get in shape and living a healthy lifestyle. For us, it&#8217;s not about <a title="The Pressure to Be Thin" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/11/female-body-image-in-the-media-the-pressure-to-be-thin-in-society.html" target="_self">being thin according to society&#8217;s standards</a>; it&#8217;s about being as healthy as we can be in mind, body and spirit.</p>
<p>Several years ago, I believed that without a gym membership there was no way I could lose weight and get physically fit. I was wrong. You can lose weight by eating healthy and exercising at home, and you don’t have to buy gym equipment if you don’t want to or can’t afford to. I wish I understood that years ago before I bought and paid for a Bally’s gym membership that ultimately cost me thousands of dollars that would have been better spent elsewhere.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;"><strong>Joining a Gym vs. Working Out at Home</strong></span></p>
<p>I can promise you that I will never again join a gym and pay those ridiculous membership fees. I won’t get into the problems we had in trying to cancel and drop my membership to Bally’s after a year or so, but it got ugly and we won the fight. Even though I canceled my Bally’s membership, I was proud of my accomplishments towards losing weight and getting fit.</p>
<p>Exercise for beginners, such as I was, means you have to start off slow.</p>
<p>If you think you can start out by trying to run a marathon or doing more than your body can handle as a beginner, you are only fooling yourself. I’ve yet to run a marathon, but being able to workout on the treadmill, stairmaster, rowing machines, exercise bikes and elliptical machines for a couple of hours at a time (without falling flat on my face) made me feel proud of myself.</p>
<p>There are a lot of men and women who say they can’t workout at home because they don’t feel the motivation to get off the couch and begin their exercise routine. Some may feel they must join and exercise at a gym to be around others who are in the same boat as they are: striving to lose weight and using the gym as a way to be held accountable. There is certainly nothing wrong with joining a gym if that is what it takes to be motivated to lose weight, get fit or maintain a healthy lifestyle. Do what works for you.</p>
<p>A couple of months ago, we began a routine of walking almost every day after dinner around the neighborhood, and over a period of time we’ve managed to increase our endurance level to the point where walking for a few miles doesn’t leave us physically exhausted and sore. On days where the weather is not conducive to walking outside, I exercise on my elliptical machine at home and walk up and down the stairs as many times as I can stand.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;"><strong>At Home Workout Gym Equipment</strong></span></p>
<p>I decided to buy an <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000JF20LI?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B000JF20LI">elliptical machine</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=B000JF20LI" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> on sale awhile back so I could exercise at home, but also because I missed the kind of hard workout I got each time I was on the elliptical at the gym. After checking out some local stores that sell used gym equipment for cheap but not finding a good quality elliptical that wasn’t in need of repairs, I found an inexpensive elliptical that I absolutely love.</p>
<p>I have even developed an interest in starting boxing exercises at home to strengthen and tone up my arms, and very soon I will buy a boxing <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26redirect%3Dtrue%26ref_%3Dsr%255Fnr%255Fi%255F0%26keywords%3Dboxing%2520bag%26qid%3D1261964648%26rh%3Di%253Asporting%252Ck%253Aboxing%2520bag&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">punching bag</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> and <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26ref_%3Dnb%255Fss%255F0%255F7%26field-keywords%3Dboxing%2520gloves%26url%3Dsearch-alias%253Dsporting%26sprefix%3Dboxing%2520&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">boxing gloves</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> and begin workouts at home with those in the garage. From what I’ve read so far, boxing exercises build shoulders, forearms, legs, hips, abs, upper back, triceps and biceps, which sounds like a full body cardio workout if there ever was one.</p>
<p>For people who don’t want to join a gym, can’t afford a gym membership or can&#8217;t afford to buy exercise equipment for home use, I would recommend checking out your local community center gym or rec center gyms, as these are often a lot cheaper than well-known (expensive) gyms.</p>
<p>Currently, I’m reading the book <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1439164967?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1439164967">YOU On A Diet</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1439164967" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Dr. Oz, which was suggested by one of my daughters who is also the yoga nut in the family. What an phenomenal book by Dr. Oz this is! Once I know a little more about what she calls the “yoga gym”, I’ll be able to understand if yoga is better than aerobics for weight loss, or not.</p>
<p>Either way, workouts at home, with or without gym equipment or <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26redirect%3Dtrue%26ref_%3Dsr%255Fnr%255Fi%255F0%26keywords%3Dexercise%2520dvd%2527s%26qid%3D1261964876%26rh%3Di%253Advd%252Ck%253Aexercise%2520dvd%2527s&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">exercise DVD&#8217;s</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> and the like, is working great for us and we’re going to stick with it even after we reach our goals. What about you? Are you planning to join a gym, or do you prefer to workout at home? What at home exercise routines do you like best?</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you a people pleaser? Do you care what people think about you? Should you care what other people think about you or not? Do you have the “disease to please” people in your life to the point where you feel like you have become someone’s personal doormat to wipe their dirty feet on? Do [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!--INFOLINKS_ON--><!-- google_ad_section_start --><p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-3662" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="Doormat Syndrome" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/Doormat-Syndrome-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" />Are you a people pleaser? Do you care what people think about you? <em>Should</em> you care what other people think about you or not? Do you have the “disease to please” people in your life to the point where you feel like you have become someone’s personal doormat to wipe their dirty feet on? Do you have difficulty saying no to requests and then feel angry or resentful because you said yes, again? Who is pulling your strings?</p>
<p>By definition, people pleasers are people who have a disproportionate and unhealthy need in their personality to give in to the wants, whims and desires of others around them, to the point of sacrificing their own wants or needs. People pleasers, pushovers and doormats lack <a title="Assertiveness - Getting the Respect You Deserve" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/02/understanding-assertiveness-getting-the-respect-you-deserve.html" target="_self">assertiveness</a> skills and hold back from speaking up and saying what they really think or feel, and they hold back from asking for what they need or want because they’re worried someone will get upset about it.</p>
<p>Having a people pleasing personality is great…..until. Being considerate, thoughtful, gracious and willing to <a title="Helping and Enabling" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/01/helping-and-enabling-is-there-a-difference.html" target="_self">help others</a> are admirable traits and characteristics, but suffering from doormat syndrome or being a people pleaser to your own detriment are not so admirable. People pleasers put other people’s needs before their own, rarely doing things for themselves and then feel guilty about it.</p>
<p>People pleasers spend time with difficult people who don’t care about or consider other people’s wants or needs above their own- not even a little bit. People pleasers will jump through hoops, so to speak, to make unhappy, insensitive, selfish, ungrateful, <a title="Inside the Minds of Angry, Controlling, Abusive Men" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/02/inside-the-minds-of-angry-controlling-and-abusive-men.html" target="_self">controlling</a>, mentally and emotionally abusive people feel better about themselves, to their own detriment. If you are tolerating <a title="Family Relationship Problems" href="http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2006/01/understanding-family-relationship-problems/" target="_blank">problematic family relationships</a> out of a sense of duty, obligation or a sense of Christian responsibility, your personal concept and belief system of what family is or isn’t needs to be reexamined and analyzed closely.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;"><strong>People Pleasers and Doormat Syndrome</strong></span></p>
<p>Are you dealing with extremely difficult people in your life? What does the term “toxic people” mean to you? Do you find yourself in personal or professional relationships where you feel used, abused, battered and beaten down mentally, emotionally, or perhaps even financially? Do you habitually give in to people because the mere thought of displeasing or upsetting them is too much for you to deal with? Do you spend too much of your time, energies or money trying to keep other people happy because of fear of what they will think of you if you stopped? <a title="Should You Care What Other People Think?" href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/why-you-shouldnt-care-what-others-think-about-you/" target="_blank">Why do you care what others think</a> about you?</p>
<p>If you routinely put your own needs aside because of wanting to make other people happy, perhaps discovering that he or she is not the least bit grateful or genuinely appreciative for the things you do, you are a classic people pleaser. Here’s some advice: Stop being a martyr, victim, people pleaser or doormat stressing out and worrying about what other people may or may not think of you.</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-3668" style="float: right; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="People Pleasers and Doormats" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/People-Pleasers-and-Doormats2-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /><strong>Stop caring what people think about you</strong> and start living your life free of the stress, worry and anxiety about what others think or want from you. The cost of caring what your boss, coworkers, subordinates, friends, <a title="Toxic Family Members" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/08/toxic-relationships-toxic-family-members.html" target="_self">family members</a>, spouse, <a title="How to Stop Enabling Grown Children" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/04/how-to-stop-enabling-when-our-grown-children-disappoint-us.html" target="_self">grown adult children</a>, parents, <a title="Dealing with Inlaws" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/06/how-to-get-along-with-the-in-laws-dealing-with-in-laws-and-extended-family.html" target="_self">inlaws</a>, siblings or other <a title="Dealing With Difficult Relatives" href="http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2005/08/dealing-with-difficult-relatives/" target="_blank">difficult relatives</a> think about you needs to stop. Allowing the opinions of others in your life to control, <a title="How to Manipulate Parents" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/10/how-to-manipulate-parents-and-get-parents-to-do-what-you-want.html" target="_self">manipulate</a> and trample on your self-worth is too high a price to pay to feel accepted, liked, loved or validated.</p>
<p>Who is the <a title="Should You Care What Other People Think?" href="http://valeriemorrison.net/blog/should-you-care-what-other-people-think/" target="_blank">puppet master</a> in your life? Can you afford the high cost of people pleasing? If you suffer from people pleaser “excess niceness” syndrome, consider the following list of costs typically associated with being a people pleaser or doormat.</p>
<p>Loss of identity, self-respect, <a title="Self Esteem in Children" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/04/building-self-confidence-in-children-with-self-esteem-activities.html" target="_self">self-esteem</a> and personal integrity. Burnout. Nagging doubt about being “good enough” for others. A debilitating sense of guilt, shame, insecurity and inability creating and maintaining <a title="Setting Healthy Boundaries" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/05/setting-boundaries-with-your-adult-children-six-steps-to-hope-and-healing-for-struggling-parents.html" target="_self">healthy boundaries</a> in relationships. Difficulty or problems managing, leading or supervising others at home and/or work; inability or difficulty trusting others, accepting kindness, positive feedback or heartfelt compliments from others. Difficulty making decisions, sticking with and <a title="Goal Setting" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/01/new-year%E2%80%99s-resolutions-in-one-year-out-the-other.html" target="_self">accomplishing personal goals</a>, because people pleasers inherently make others a priority over themselves.</p>
<p>People pleasing personality types find it virtually impossible to deny any or all requests made upon them even when doing so creates stress, chaos, financial burden, anxiety attacks, depression and even bankruptcy. The need for the approval and acceptance of others becomes debilitating for people pleasers, where fear of saying no and the intense aversion to confrontations or angry reprisals causes people pleasers to give in time after time after time.</p>
<p><strong>Stop caring what people think</strong> about you. Relying on the opinions of others for approval, acceptance and validation is a self-sabotaging behavior and is detrimental to your health, happiness and wellbeing. Harriet B. Braikder, Ph.D writes in her book <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0071385649?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0071385649">The Disease To Please</a></em>, “As a people-pleaser, you feel controlled by your need to please others and addicted to their approval. At the same time, you feel out of control over the pressures and demands on your life that these needs have created”. Does that sound rational to you?</p>
<p><a title="Not Caring What People Think" href="http://www.pluginid.com/caring-what-people-think/" target="_blank">Not caring how other people think</a> or feel towards you doesn’t mean that you should become selfish or egotistical, or that you should make your personal wants, preferences and needs the only priority in your life. Not at all. I’m suggesting that your needs are just as important as anyone else&#8217;s; that you should avoid seeking acceptance or approval from people who have their own selfish agenda.</p>
<p>Do things for others because you really care about them and want to, rather than out of fear that they won’t like you or will abandon you if you don’t do what they want. Stop allowing other people’s opinions, needs or wants to control or dictate who or what you are as a person.</p>
<p>If someone doesn’t like you or stops liking you because you don’t do what they want, then you’re being used by them and they are not someone you need in your life anyway. Take your power back. Learn to let go of the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26ref_%3Dnb%255Fss%255Fgw%26field-keywords%3DThe%2520Disease%2520to%2520Please%26url%3Dsearch-alias%253Dstripbooks&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">disease to please</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> other people and remind yourself that you ARE good enough!</p>
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		<title>2010 Top Ten New Year’s Resolutions</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you making New Year’s Resolutions for 2010? Remember, New Year’s resolution statistics are not on your side, so if you really want to be successful at achieving any New Year’s goals for the year 2010, you have some hard work ahead of you.
Anyone can make a list of New Year’s resolutions, and the list [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!--INFOLINKS_ON--><!-- google_ad_section_start --><p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-3575" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="New Year's Resolutions" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/2010-Top-Ten-New-Years-Resolutions-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" />Are you making <a title="New Year's Resolutions" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/01/new-year%E2%80%99s-resolutions-in-one-year-out-the-other.html" target="_self">New Year’s Resolutions</a> for 2010? Remember, New Year’s resolution statistics are not on your side, so if you really want to be successful at achieving any New Year’s goals for the year 2010, you have some hard work ahead of you.</p>
<p>Anyone can make a list of New Year’s resolutions, and the list may include the most popular top ten, twenty or more resolutions that are common each and every year. Trouble is, far too many people make New Year’s resolutions without actually making a real plan of sticking to or keeping the New Year’s resolutions that they’ve set for themselves.</p>
<p>Making New Year’s resolutions can be very beneficial for all of us, but the chances of sticking to these resolutions throughout the entire year usually doesn’t work out, unless you change the word “resolutions” to “goals”. Personally, I never make New Year’s Resolutions. Not ever.<br />
<em><br />
“Cheers to a New Year and another chance for us to get it right.”</em> &#8211; Oprah Winfrey</p>
<p>While I don’t do New Year’s resolutions, I do set <a title="Setting Goals" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/01/goal-setting-setting-personal-and-finance-goals-for-2009.html" target="_self">personal and professional goals</a> that are Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic and Time-bound, also called SMART goals. If you’re going to make any kind of New Year’s resolution for 2010, 2011 and beyond, you’re much better off and much more likely to achieve the personal and/or professional goals you set if you have a solid action plan to help you accomplish your goals.</p>
<p>I don’t know why people seem to be so fascinated with funny New Year’s resolutions and silly quotes, but it seems to me that if someone has specific goals in mind of things they want to achieve in the new year, it’s time to stop laughing and get serious about what you want.<br />
<em><br />
“A New Year’s resolution is something that goes in one year and out the other.”</em> &#8211; Author Unknown</p>
<p>For the year 2010, some have made a resolution or goal to find a husband, find a wife, find a girlfriend or boyfriend, have a baby, lose 20 pounds, quit drinking and similar real life goals that really aren’t funny at all. The fact that I met my husband online, as have many other people I know personally and professionally, the opportunity to meet your future husband or wife online is a very realistic goal and doable.</p>
<p>If you or someone you know is looking for love in the new year, the Helen Fisher <a title="Why Him Why Her Personality Test" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/01/why-him-why-her-helen-fisher-personality-test-understanding-your-personality-type.html" target="_self">Why Him Why Her personality test</a> is the place to start finding real love by understanding your personality type, and understanding why people are attracted to one another based on four different personality types. There’s nothing funny about finding your soul mate.</p>
<p>Statistically speaking, that quote about resolutions is true for many people, but it doesn’t have to be for you and I. The most popular New Year’s resolutions are the same this year as they were last year. Which of these ten are on your list of goals you want to be successful at achieving in 2010?</p>
<p><em>“By failing to prepare, you are preparing to fail.”</em> &#8211; Benjamin Franklin</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;"><strong>Top 10 New Year’s Resolutions</strong></span></p>
<ol>
<li>Lose weight</li>
<li> Manage debt/save money</li>
<li> Get a better job</li>
<li> Spend more time with family</li>
<li> Quit smoking</li>
<li> Eat right/Get fit</li>
<li> Get a better education</li>
<li> Reduce stress</li>
<li> Going greener</li>
<li> Volunteer to help others</li>
</ol>
<p>Out of the above top ten resolutions listed, I have already been successful at <a title="Quit Smoking" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/10/how-to-quit-smoking-cigarettes-stop-smoking-for-good.html" target="_self">quitting smoking</a>, and I was surprised at <a title="The Easy Way to Stop Smoking" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2009/11/the-easy-way-to-stop-smoking-is-the-best-way-to-quit-smoking.html" target="_self">how easy quitting smoking</a> can actually be for smokers. At least it was for me and can be for you too if you want to quit smoking.</p>
<p><em>“People are so worried about what they eat between Christmas and the New Year, but they really should be worried about what they eat between the New Year and Christmas.”</em> &#8211; Author Unknown</p>
<p>The goal of managing debt and saving money is still an ongoing process for us and many other people, but <a title="Getting Out of Debt On Your Own" href="http://grandmastories.net/2009/12/getting-out-of-debt-on-your-own-personal-finance-blogs-to-help-get-out-of-debt.html" target="_blank">getting out of debt</a> once for all is a goal we have set for ourselves and we are giving a full 100% of our time and energies to accomplishing our goal to be debt free. A dear friend gifted us with Dave Ramsey’s book <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0785289089?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0785289089">The Total Money Makeover</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0785289089" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> and the accompanying <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0785263276?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0785263276">The Total Money Makeover Workbook</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0785263276" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> recently, and I’m so excited to start reading through the book and workbook with my dear hubby.</p>
<p>While talking to one of my daughters recently about my goal to lose weight over the next few months, she told me about an amazing book called <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0743292545?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0743292545">You: On A Diet: The Owner&#8217;s Manual for Waist Management</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0743292545" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> and the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000K7JY7S?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B000K7JY7S">You On A Diet Workout</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=B000K7JY7S" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> DVD by Mehmet C Oz (Dr Oz from the Oprah Show) and Michael F. Roizen. With the help of this book and workout DVD, I now have a better understanding of how our brain, stomach, hormones, muscles, heart, genetics, and stress levels all interact biologically to determine if our body is the size of a baseball bat or the size of a baseball stadium. I will achieve my goals of losing weight and getting fit, and you can too. Oh, and the humor these two authors use in these books will make you laugh out loud, of that I&#8217;m sure.</p>
<p>Losing weight is always one of the top, if not the most popular, resolution people make each and every year. People often say, &#8220;I resolve to lose twenty pounds this year&#8221;, but are often clueless about how to lose weight successfully or where and how to begin a weight loss program. Fortunately, I recently heard about a book by author <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fgp%2Fentity%2FDavid-Zinczenko%2FB001ILKBL8%3Fie%3DUTF8%26ref_%3Dntt%255Fdp%255Fepwbk%255F0&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">David Zinczenko</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> called Eat This Not That, and it&#8217;s on its way to me now.</p>
<p>Did you know?<br />
· Choosing Prime Rib over Baby Back Ribs at Outback will save you more than 2,000 calories?<br />
· You can save nearly 500 calories and more than 20 grams of fat just by ordering a banana split at Dairy Queen instead of Baskin-Robbins?<br />
· A Stouffer’s White Meat Chicken Pot Pie has as much saturated fat as 6 scoops of ice cream? (Choose our alternative and save more than 900 calories!)</p>
<p>If you didn&#8217;t know those diet facts, don&#8217;t feel bad because I didn&#8217;t either. Most diet books promise some secret formula to losing weight, or offer a mystifying scientific-sounding diet plan to melt away pounds but not Eat This, Not That. The latest, updated 2010 version of the  &#8220;diet book&#8221; from Men&#8217;s Health Editor-in-Chief David Zinczenko and Men&#8217;s Health food and nutrition editor <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fs%3Fie%3DUTF8%26sort%3Drelevancerank%26search-alias%3Dbooks%26ref_%3Dntt%255Fathr%255Fdp%255Fsr%255F2%26field-author%3DMatt%2520Goulding&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">Matt Goulding</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> is a must-have for anyone serious about losing weight and getting healthy. The <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1605295388?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=1605295388">Eat This Not That!</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1605295388" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> diet is not a diet in the traditional sense, but a calorie counter&#8217;s dream.</p>
<p>Many people are clueless when it comes to the calories in the foods they eat at home or at restaurants, and even when they guess, they usually underestimate the number of calories consumed. I can hardly wait to receive the Eat This Not That book because we tend to eat out at restaurants a few times a month, and being able to make good, healthy food choices is vital for anyone wanting/needing to lose weight.</p>
<p><em>“The man who will not execute his resolutions when they are fresh upon him can have no hope from them afterwards; they will be dissipated, lost and perish in the hurry and scurry of the world, or sunk in the slough of indolence.”</em> &#8211; Marie Edgeworth</p>
<p>Are you making New Year’s resolutions for 2010? What goals do you want to accomplish in the coming year? Have you created a workable plan of action to help you reach your goals? Out of the top ten New Year’s resolutions listed above, what is your number one top goal and which comes in second?</p>
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		<title>Oprah Magazine 5 Dollar Magazine Subscriptions</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Oprah Winfrey fans, listen up! Amazon.com is currently running a “Magazine Steal of the Week” subscription deal on Oprah Winfrey’s “O” magazine for just five dollars, plus deals on other popular magazines HERE!
A one full year magazine subscription to Oprah‘s “O” Magazine is just five dollars, until the deal ends on December 19th. Oprah’s magazine [...]]]></description>
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<p>Oprah Winfrey fans, listen up! Amazon.com is currently running a “Magazine Steal of the Week” subscription deal on Oprah Winfrey’s “O” magazine for just five dollars, plus deals on other popular magazines <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00079RO7G?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=B00079RO7G">HERE</a><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=B00079RO7G" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" />!</p>
<p>A one full year magazine subscription to Oprah‘s “O” Magazine is just five dollars, until the deal ends on December 19th. Oprah’s magazine usually goes for $18 for a yearly subscription&#8211; $5 is definitely a steal!</p>
<p>PLUS, you can use the $5.00 magazine subscription “steal of the week” on Amazon to extend your current magazine subscription to Oprah and other magazines, and this deal is not just for new subscribers!</p>
<p>Amazon has magazine subscription deals for less than $10.00 for many of the most popular magazines for men, women and children <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FDeals-Magazines-Subscriptions%2Fb%3Fie%3DUTF8%26node%3D604932%26ref_%3Damb%255Flink%255F86168171%255F1&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957">HERE</a><img style="border:none !important; margin:0px !important;" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" />.</p>
<p>Kids love receiving and reading <a title="Children's Magazines" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/09/top-40-childrens-magazines.html" target="_self">children&#8217;s magazines</a> for their age group and interests too, so hurry before the deals and steals expire!</p>
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