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		<title>300 Crafts for Kids in 2011 Is About So Much More Than Just Crafts  </title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Feb 2011 18:53:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Lin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tired of winter? Tired of being inside the house with nothing new to do? Are your kids bouncing off the walls? Gummy Lump to the rescue with a NEW KIDS CRAFT practically every day! That&#8217;s right! This year you and your child can join GummyLump.com in making 300 easy kids crafts that will entertain your kids while helping them develop a wide variety of key skills! As [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!--INFOLINKS_ON--><p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-5344" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="Easy Kids Crafts" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/Easy-Kids-Crafts.jpg" alt="" width="113" height="150" /> Tired of winter? Tired of being inside the house with nothing new to do? Are your kids bouncing off the walls? Gummy Lump to the rescue with a <a title="New Kids Craft" href="http://blog.gummylump.com/2011/01/300-crafts-for-kids-in-2011.html" target="_blank">NEW KIDS CRAFT</a> practically every day! That&#8217;s right! This year you and your child can join <a title="GummyLump.com" href="http://www.gummylump.com/" target="_blank">GummyLump.com</a> in making 300 <strong>easy kids crafts</strong> that will entertain your kids while helping them develop a wide variety of key skills!</p>
<p>As the Mom of two 3.5 year olds I am always looking for creative things to do with my children. More than that, I&#8217;m also looking for educational activities that will develop fine motor skills, increase self confidence, develop problem solving skills, express creativity, break the boredom, and allow us to more closely bond during one on one time. My answer came as a result of my New Year&#8217;s Resolution to my kids: to spend more quality time with them every day. How?</p>
<p>I created <a title="300 Crafts For Kids in 2011" href="http://blog.gummylump.com/2011/01/300-crafts-for-kids-in-2011.html" target="_blank">300 Crafts for Kids in 2011</a>! I can&#8217;t tell you how much this crafting project has changed me and my children. My preschoolers have become so much more inquisitive and are better problem solvers already &#8211; only 24 crafts in! There is a noticeable difference in their interest in arts &amp; crafts, sensory play, fine motor skills, and self confidence.</p>
<p>Best of all, they cherish the one on one time (or in my case, 1 on 2 time) that they get, distraction free, while we&#8217;re creating our crafts. They are like little crafting engineers. They especially love to watch me &#8220;experiment&#8221; with new crafts. They love to ask what I&#8217;m doing, why I&#8217;m doing it, how is it going to stay together, and so on. I never realized all the skills that develop during arts &amp; crafts projects.</p>
<p>Personally, I was never a crafter. I think the last craft I did prior to this project was a pom pom bear I made in Brownies in the 1970&#8242;s! Crafting has changed me too. I&#8217;m a more patient, less controlling Mom and my kids greatly enjoy the freedom of expression it gives them. Truly, no one is more shocked than me at the visible changes and growth that has taken place in me and my children since this project began. It&#8217;s one of the best things I&#8217;ve ever done! We hope that you&#8217;ll join us and experience it for yourself.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-5346" title="Hatching Baby Dinosaur Kids Craft" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/Hatching-Baby-Dinosaur-Kids-Craft.jpg" alt="" width="396" height="277" /></p>
<p>If you&#8217;re a <strong>Type A Mom</strong> like me, believe me when I say it&#8217;ll be good for you! It&#8217;s a small period of time each day when even you can be silly and messy! It all cleans up easily and also gives your children the opportunity to be free from so many rules for a little while!</p>
<p><strong>What&#8217;s stopping YOU from joining us?</strong></p>
<p><strong>Some MYTHS About Doing Crafts with Kids</strong>:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>You need to have experience doing crafts to be able to follow along</strong>. Nope! I don&#8217;t. Before this project I hadn&#8217;t done a crafty thing since Brownies. Look at me now!</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li> <strong>You need to have hundreds of supplies on hand</strong>. Nope! I use basic <a title="kids art supplies" href="http://www.gummylump.com/c/ArtSuppliesKids/2" target="_blank">kids art supplies</a> and almost every craft will allow for very liberal substitutions.</li>
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<li> <strong>I don&#8217;t have the kind of time needed for this</strong>. Wrong again! These are <a title="preschool crafts" href="http://blog.gummylump.com/2011/01/300-crafts-for-kids-in-2011.html" target="_blank">preschool crafts</a> so they don&#8217;t take a long time. Kids this age can&#8217;t handle it. Our craft projects take 15-45 minutes depending on how closely you follow the instructions. I encourage you to do it your own way. Shave off some time if you think you or your child can&#8217;t handle the amount of time I&#8217;ve said it will take.</li>
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<li> <strong>It has to look like the photo and I&#8217;m afraid my child won&#8217;t be able to do it</strong>. NO! NO! NO! It should NEVER look just like mine. These projects are not at all about perfection in any way! If anything, they&#8217;re about the opposite. They&#8217;re about being creative individually, doing it your own way, changing it to make it suit your supplies and your child, and about connecting with your child. THE LAST thing to concern yourself with is if you think it looks &#8220;good&#8221;. Believe me, it looks good to your child because THEY made it out of a few assorted supplies and now it&#8217;s &#8220;something&#8221;. That is amazing. Enjoy that! They are surely relishing it!</li>
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<li><strong>My child has special needs so he can&#8217;t do these kinds of projects</strong>. Possibly, but not in most cases. Your child may have different abilities, but that is also true for every single child on the planet. None of us is the same, including our abilities. One of the most fantastic things about art is that each creation is as unique as the person who creates it!</li>
</ul>
<p>I provide modifications for children with special needs, but you know your child best and can make appropriate adjustments where needed. This can be a wonderfully liberating experience for your child because it&#8217;s an environment he they can make all kinds of decisions that are ALL right! There are no wrong choices here! That  can be an incredible self esteem builder. You may even be shocked at how much your child enjoys certain aspects of art, or how good he is at it!</p>
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<li> <strong>Those crafts are cute but my child is older now</strong>. Great! I also include modifications for older children! Your older child can join us <img src='http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </li>
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<li> <strong>There are no giveaways!</strong> WRONG! You are automatically entered to win a weekly giveaway just for posting your completed project from 300 Crafts for Kids on our <a title="GummyLump Facebook" href="https://www.facebook.com/GummyLump" target="_blank">facebook</a> page! Our last 3 winners all got $25 in <a title="kids art supplies" href="http://www.gummylump.com/c/ArtSuppliesKids/2" target="_blank">kids art supplies</a>!</li>
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<li> <strong>Crafts are fun but have little if any educational value</strong>. NO! Craft projects are extraordinarily educational! Art develops creative thinking, provides means of communication and self expression, increases self understanding, strengthens self concepts and confidence, serves as an emotional release, provides decision-making opportunities, develops appreciation for the individuality of others, aids physical coordination, develops work habits and a sense of responsibility, heightens aesthetic awareness and sensitivity, and generates joy! Crafts also serving as a jumping off point to learn more about the topic!</li>
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<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-5352" title="Sensory Dinosaurs Kids Crafts" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/Sensory-Dinosaurs-Kids-Crafts.jpg" alt="" width="352" height="192" /><br />
<strong>Ready to start? <a href="http://blog.gummylump.com/2011/01/300-crafts-for-kids-in-2011.html" target="_blank">Join us Right Now</a>!</strong></p>
<p>Our First 24 Kids Craft Projects:</p>
<ul>
<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #1: Shiny Sequin Design</li>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #2: Choo Choo Photo Train</li>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #3: Fuzzy Polar Bear</li>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #4: Dinosaur Fingerprint Creations</li>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #5: Coin Art Fruits</li>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #6: Sensory Dinosaurs Craft</li>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #7: Hearts Bouquet with Sparkly Vase (Valentine&#8217;s Day)</li>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #8: Making Chocolate with Children</li>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #9: Hatching Dinosaur Egg in Nest (with baby dinosaur)!</li>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #10: &#8220;Things I Like&#8221; Wall Hanging</li>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #11: Valentine Foil Heart Kids Craft</li>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #12: I Love My Family Valentine Craft</li>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #13: Heart Mosaic Valentine Wall Hanging</li>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #14: Making Brownie Love Pops &amp; Heart Shaped Brownies with Children</li>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #15: Foil Play Food Cupcakes for Valentine&#8217;s Day or any time!</li>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #16: Three Crafty Bear &#8211; Teddy Bear Love</li>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #17: Fabric Heart Valentine Hanging</li>
</ul>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #18: Baking with Preschool Kids for Valentine&#8217;s Day</li>
</ul>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #19: Valentine Watercolor Flowers in Vase</li>
</ul>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #20: Walking Love Bug for Valentine&#8217;s Day</li>
</ul>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #21: Teddy Bear Hugs Lacing Craft</li>
</ul>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #22: Heart Deco Desktop Craft</li>
</ul>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #23: Three Valentine&#8217;s Day Flower Corsages</li>
</ul>
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<li> KIDS CRAFTS PROJECT #24: Pipe Cleaner Vase with Button Flowers</li>
</ul>
<p>P.S. I want to give your readers the <strong>&#8220;KIDSCRAFTS&#8221; </strong>discount coupon code to save 10% on all art supplies at gummylump.com &#8211; The discount applies to any <a title="Discount Kids Art Supplies Coupon Code" href="http://www.gummylump.com/c/ArtSuppliesKids/2" target="_blank">Kids Art Supplies here</a> &#8211; even Melissa &amp; Doug items that are ALREADY marked down 20%!!!</p>
<p>Each kids craft project also includes modifications associated educational activities including a book recommendation! Come on! Join in on the <a title="Fun Kids Crafts" href="http://blog.gummylump.com/2011/01/300-crafts-for-kids-in-2011.html" target="_blank">Fun Kids Crafts</a> and tell your family, friends and neighbors to come along too!</p>
<blockquote><p><em>Guest article written and submitted by Linda R. from Gummy Lump Toys at www.gummylump.com. Kids craft images used with permission.</em></p></blockquote>
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		<title>Summer Activities For Kids &#8211; Fun Summer Things for Kids to Do</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jun 2008 11:00:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Summer is here and parents are spending time looking for fun activities to keep their kids active, busy and physically fit during their summer break from school. What parent hasn&#8217;t heard the phrase, &#8220;I&#8217;m so bored!&#8221; shortly after summer vacation begins? Some parents cannot afford to send their kids to expensive summer camps, and are [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!--INFOLINKS_ON--><p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-449" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="Summer Activities For Kids" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/summer-activities-for-kids.thumbnail.jpg" alt="" width="85" height="128" /> Summer is here and parents are spending time looking for fun activities to keep their kids active, busy and physically fit during their summer break from school. What parent hasn&rsquo;t heard the phrase, &ldquo;I&rsquo;m so bored!&rdquo; shortly after summer vacation begins? Some parents cannot afford to send their kids to expensive summer camps, and are needing ideas about fun, inexpensive and free activities for kids to do this summer.</p>
<p>Having raised six kids myself, I had to come up with some creative and unique summer activities for my kids, otherwise summer break from school would inevitably lead to boredom and fights amongst the kids.</p>
<p>One thing that worked very well with my kids was to have each of my children make a list of fun activities they wanted to do during their summer break, written on separate pieces of paper, and anytime one of my children said they were bored, out came the fishbowl filled with hundreds of ideas of things to do. I was surprised and happy to find several household chores were included on my kid&rsquo;s list of things to do, which definitely made me feel quite proud of my children.</p>
<p>Sometimes we made a game out of deciding which activity one or more of the kids would do, either separately or as a group, which helped my children feel more in control and involved in the decision of what things they would do during their summer break. Beating summertime boredom can be challenging at times, but having kids do some brainstorming on their own not only helps <strong><a title="Building Self-Confidence in Children With Self-Esteem Activities" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/04/building-self-confidence-in-children-with-self-esteem-activities.html">build self-confidence and self-esteem</a></strong> in children, but it also teaches children how to come up with ideas and solutions to problems on their own.</p>
<p><span style="font-size: medium;"><strong>Things for Kids to Do in the Summer:</strong></span></p>
<p>In random order, with some activities being free or at least inexpensive, here are some ideas of things for kids to do in the summer to prevent or beat summertime boredom:</p>
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<td>Bike riding</td>
<td>Jump rope</td>
<td>Basketball</td>
<td>Soccer</td>
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<td>Swimming</td>
<td>Dancing</td>
<td>Hopscotch</td>
<td>Roller blade</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Play board games</td>
<td>Go to the zoo</td>
<td>Go to a museum</td>
<td>Play in the sprinkler</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Make a lemonade stand</td>
<td>Martial arts</td>
<td>Create an obstacle course</td>
<td>Draw or finger paint</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Do puzzles</td>
<td>Play card games</td>
<td><a onmouseover="window.status='http://www.2blockheads.com';return true;" onmouseout="window.status=' ';return true;" href="http://www.anrdoezrs.net/f0100qgpmgo36A65757354795DAC" target="_blank">Do Kids Crafts </a></td>
<td>Play catch with a ball</td>
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<td>Play Frisbee</td>
<td>Plant a garden</td>
<td>Play Cowboys and Indians</td>
<td>Play Hide-and-Seek</td>
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<td>Mow the lawn</td>
<td>Rake and play in the leaves</td>
<td>Write and act out a children&rsquo;s play</td>
<td>Get <a title="Family Friendly Theater Tickets!" href="http://www.jdoqocy.com/49116y1A719PSWSRTRTPRQTWZTRZ" target="_blank">Family Friendly Theater Tickets!</a></td>
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<td>Start a collection: rocks, feathers, colorful leaves</td>
<td>Write a letter to grandma or grandpa</td>
<td>Play with the pet in or outside the house</td>
<td>Do brain-teasers or crossword puzzles</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Make puppets and put on a show</td>
<td>Do a good deed for an elderly neighbor</td>
<td>Play with toy cars or dolls</td>
<td>Run relay races</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>Learn to play a musical instrument</td>
<td>Play with building blocks or Legos</td>
<td>Play baseball</td>
<td>Play charades</td>
</tr>
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<td>Plan a treasure hunt in the backyard</td>
<td>Make homemade popsicles</td>
<td>Make a fort with popsicle sticks</td>
<td>Play tag or touch football</td>
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<td>Go to a local or state park</td>
<td>Get season tickets to Six Flags!</td>
<td>Bake cookies with mom</td>
<td><a onmouseover="window.status='http://www.buy.com';return true;" onmouseout="window.status=' ';return true;" href="http://affiliate.buy.com/gateway.aspx?adid=17662&amp;aid=10389847&amp;pid=2621313&amp;sid=&amp;sURL=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.buy.com%2Fretail%2Fbooks%2Fdepartment.asp%3Floc%3D106" target="_blank">Read Books</a></td>
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<p>With summertime weather typically being optimal for outside play, and believing that children spend <a title="Technology and Children: A Wake Up Call for Parents" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2007/12/technology-and-children-a-wake-up-call-for-parents.html">too much time watching television</a>, playing video games or being on the computer, I purposely did not list such things for kids to do during the summer. In order for kids to be active and physically fit, during summer or any other time of year, children need to do a variety of <strong><a title="Improving Self-Esteem in Kids" href="http://parentingmethods.suite101.com/article.cfm/improving_selfesteem_in_children" target="_blank">self-esteem activities</a></strong> that sitting in front of the t.v. or computer monitor will not provide.</p>
<p>Kids can have a lot of fun building something at The Home Depot and Lowe&rsquo;s kid clubs, which is FREE to children of all ages. With each store&rsquo;s kids&rsquo; club providing keepsake aprons, tools, safety goggles and kits to build things like birdhouses, bookshelves and wooden toys, children not only have a lot of fun but their self-esteem is improved too. Each time kids complete a project, children are given gift certificates of completion and patches to put on their aprons. Check with your local Home Depot or Lowe&rsquo;s stores about their kids&rsquo; club schedule to ensure space is available for your child.</p>
<p>Do you have any more suggestions of fun things for kids to do in the summer? What summer activities for kids do you have planned for your own children?</p>
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		<title>Building Self-Confidence in Children with Self-Esteem Activities</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[When was the last time you yelled, screamed, criticized or punished your child? When did you last hug, encourage, praise or say &#8220;thank you&#8221; to your child? If these parenting behaviors were placed on a weight scale side-by-side, what would the results be in determining how you fare in building healthy self-esteem vs. low self-esteem [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!--INFOLINKS_ON--><p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-313" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="Healthy Self-Esteem" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/healthy-self-esteem.thumbnail.jpg" alt="" width="128" height="121" /> When was the last time you yelled, screamed, criticized or punished your child? When did you last hug, encourage, praise or say &ldquo;thank you&rdquo; to your child? If these parenting behaviors were placed on a weight scale side-by-side, what would the results be in determining how you fare in building healthy self-esteem vs. low self-esteem in your children? What would your self-esteem look like if roles were reversed and you were the child being parented by someone just like you?</p>
<p>Parents may not think about or realize how their words and actions impact their children&rsquo;s self-worth, their ability to feel good about themselves, and how it follows children well into adulthood. The overall independence, happiness and success of children depends largely on parents building healthy self-esteem in their children and teens.</p>
<p>Family communication research confirms that parents spend very little time actually communicating with their children, and when parents do speak to their child it is most often to complain, criticize or reprimand them for something they&rsquo;ve done wrong. Studies show that younger children are often criticized and yelled at throughout the day, whereas older children and teens report receiving more encouragement and praise as they got older. Something is terribly wrong with that.</p>
<p>In a previous article, I talked about the importance of <a title="A Child's Ten Commandments For Parents" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/04/a-childs-ten-commandments-for-parents.html">building self-esteem in children</a> by considering how they view the world through their young eyes and ears, keeping in mind the importance of giving loving encouragement and genuine praise to children. Promoting self-confidence in children means that parents must evaluate and re-evaluate their parenting style, making needed changes and improvements in order for their children to grow up feeling loved, appreciated and wanted.</p>
<p>Young children tend to hear things like:</p>
<ul>
<li>No!</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Put that down!</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Stop doing that!</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Stop hitting your sister!</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Don&rsquo;t throw the ball in the house!</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>If you do that <strong>one more time</strong> I&rsquo;m going to&hellip;!</li>
</ul>
<p>Parents need to look for opportunities and situations to encourage and genuinely praise children when they are cooperating, being nice to their brother or sister, helping with household chores, following the rules or just being good, remembering not to expect perfection with each task.</p>
<ul>
<li>I like the way you helped set the table for dinner.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Thank you for playing nicely with your sister/brother.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>I appreciate how you picked up your toys and put them away.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>I like the way you made your bed all by yourself.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Thank you for helping me fold the laundry.</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>I appreciate how well you behaved at the store today.</li>
</ul>
<p>Promote self-confidence in children by teaching them positive Self-Talk. Psychologists have found that negative self-talk causes depression and anxiety in children, so it&rsquo;s important to teach children to have pride in their abilities and accomplishments.</p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-312" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="I Can Do It Myself" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/i-can-do-it-myself.thumbnail.jpg" alt="" width="96" height="128" /> I can still remember when my children were about 3 years-old and trying to get them dressed for the day. My son didn&rsquo;t want me to help him put his shirt on and said, &ldquo;I can do it myself!&rdquo; I allowed him to get dressed by himself, and even though he put the shirt on backwards, the smile on his face told me he felt good about his ability to do things without help.</p>
<p>Children need to be allowed to make age-appropriate choices and decisions, such as deciding what outfit they&rsquo;ll wear or what they want to eat for breakfast or lunch, as well as helping with chores and responsibilities in the home, in order to learn how to deal with the consequences of their decisions.</p>
<ul>
<li>Would you like to wear the blue outfit or the red one today?</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Would you like peanut butter and jelly or a grilled cheese sandwich for lunch?</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Would you like to clean the kitchen or clean the bathroom?</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Would you like to mow the yard or sweep the sidewalk?</li>
</ul>
<ul>
<li>Would you like vegetable soup or chili for dinner tonight?</li>
</ul>
<p>Children need to be given <a title="Improving Self-Esteem in Children" href="http://parentingmethods.suite101.com/article.cfm/improving_selfesteem_in_children" target="_blank">self-esteem activities</a> in order to feel good about themselves. John is the father of two children, a 9 year-old daughter and an 11 year-old son. From the time his children were five years old, John and his wife began taking the children to homeless shelter&rsquo;s over the Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays to help feed and serve the homeless.</p>
<p>John&rsquo;s kids are some of the most compassionate and empathetic children I&rsquo;ve ever known, so much so that when a family vacation was being considered one year over the holidays, both children said they &ldquo;need to help the people at the shelter&rsquo;s&rdquo; rather than go on vacation. The vacation trip was postponed and the children were thrilled in being allowed to contribute to the final decision.</p>
<p>Children also need to be shown proper discipline from their parents, along with parents setting limits regarding how they talk and behave. Undisciplined children cannot grow up with healthy self-esteem and tend to be more dependent upon others, feeling they have no control over their own lives. Children need emotional and physical protection provided through rules and limits in order to have high self-esteem. I&rsquo;ll be dealing with the issue of giving proper discipline to children in an upcoming article.</p>
<p>When was the last time you had a real conversation with your child or teen where you truly felt connected? What are some things you recommend parents do to help build high self-esteem in children and teenagers? Do you have a question or personal story you would like to share about building self-confidence in children? If so, please leave a comment below.</p>
<p><strong>Further Reading:</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/08/books-on-building-self-confidence-in-children-and-teens.html">Books on Building Self-Confidence in Children and Teens</a><br />
<a title="How To Build Self-Confidence in Children and Teens" href="http://parentingmethods.suite101.com/article.cfm/improving_selfesteem_in_children" target="_blank">How to Build Self-Confidence in Children and Teens</a><br />
<a title="A Child's Ten Commandments For Parents" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/04/a-childs-ten-commandments-for-parents.html">A Child&#8217;s Ten Commandments For Parents</a></p>
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