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		<description><![CDATA[To &#8220;let go&#8221; does not mean to stop caring,
it means I can&#8217;t do it for someone else.
To &#8220;let go&#8221; is not to cut myself off,
it&#8217;s the realization I can&#8217;t control another.
To &#8220;let go&#8221; is not to enable,
but to allow learning from natural consequences.
To &#8220;let go&#8221; is to admit powerlessness,
which means the outcome is not in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!--INFOLINKS_ON--><!-- google_ad_section_start --><p>To &#8220;let go&#8221; does not mean to stop caring,<br />
it means I can&#8217;t do it for someone else.</p>
<p>To &#8220;let go&#8221; is not to cut myself off,<br />
it&#8217;s the realization I can&#8217;t control another.</p>
<p>To &#8220;let go&#8221; is <a href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/04/how-to-stop-enabling-when-our-grown-children-disappoint-us.html">not to enable</a>,<br />
but to allow learning from natural consequences.</p>
<p>To &#8220;let go&#8221; is to admit powerlessness,<br />
which means the outcome is not in my hands.</p>
<p>To &#8220;let go&#8221; is not to try to change or blame another,<br />
it&#8217;s to make the most of myself.</p>
<p>To &#8220;let go&#8221; is not to care for,<br />
but to care about.</p>
<p>To &#8220;let go&#8221; is not to fix,<br />
but to be supportive.</p>
<p>To &#8220;let go&#8221; is not to judge,<br />
but to allow another to be a human being.</p>
<p>To &#8220;let go&#8221; is not to be in the middle arranging the outcomes,<br />
but to allow others to affect their own destinies.</p>
<p>To &#8220;let go&#8221; is not to be protective,<br />
it&#8217;s to permit another to face reality.</p>
<p>To &#8220;let go&#8221; is not to deny,<br />
but to accept.</p>
<p>To &#8220;let go&#8221; it not to nag, scold or argue,<br />
but instead to search out my own shortcomings, and correct them.</p>
<p>To &#8220;let go&#8221; is not to adjust everything to my desires<br />
but to take each day as it comes,<br />
and cherish myself in it.</p>
<p>To &#8220;let go&#8221; is not to criticize and regulate anybody<br />
but to try to become what I dream I can be.</p>
<p>To &#8220;let go&#8221; is not to regret the past,<br />
but to grow and live for the future.</p>
<p>To &#8220;let go&#8221; is to fear less,<br />
and love more.</p>
<p>(Unknown Author)</p>
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