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		<description><![CDATA[In today&#8217;s day and age, going to college is almost a requirement to go far in the work place. Having a degree from a college or university not only gives you the education you need to gain employment but it also gives you another way to market yourself for that job you are striving for. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!--INFOLINKS_ON--><p>In today&#8217;s day and age, going to college is almost a requirement to go far in the work place. Having a degree from a college or university not only gives you the education you need to gain employment but it also gives you another way to market yourself for that job you are striving for. A college degree is most often expensive but there are ways to handle that cost all on your own.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;"><strong>Getting a Job</strong></span></p>
<p>To pay for college requires money and the easiest way to make money is to have a job. This job does not have to be anything fancy and can even be part time. Depending on the type of school that is being attended, studies may need to be done part-time and work done full time to earn enough money to pay for school. Money made from this job can be put towards tuition bills and no student loans will need to be taken out.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;"><strong>Work &#8211; Study Program</strong></span></p>
<p>Most colleges offer work &#8211; study opportunities or internships. These are jobs you get part-time on campus working for professors or in the office buildings. You can either be paid in cash and apply this money to your tuition or you can work for the school and money will be deducted off of your tuition cost.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;"><strong>Grants</strong></span></p>
<p>Grants are monies that are applied for through the government. Certain requirements and specifications need to be met but if approved, the money is given and is then applied towards tuition and does not need to be paid back. Depending on the type of grant, it can be renewed annually until graduation or a one-time thing.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;"><strong>Scholarships</strong></span></p>
<p>Scholarships work in the same way grants do but are given out by different agencies and groups. These need to be applied for like grants do and certain requirements and specifications need to be met as well. The amount of each scholarship will vary from organization to organization and the renewability of the scholarship will vary as well. When scholarship money is given, the giver sends the money straight to the college or university and the amount is applied to the tuition bill.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;"><strong>Community College</strong></span></p>
<p>Community colleges are a great way to cut down on the expense of college and ease the burden of tuition costs. In addition to being cost effective, after completing the two years a community college requires, an Associate&#8217;s degree can be achieved. Then a transfer to a 4-year university can be done and the rest of the work towards a 4-year degree can be completed.</p>
<p>A college degree takes work and can be costly. Being determined and doing some extra work can leave a college graduate debt free as they enter the work force.</p>
<p>Louise Baker is a freelance blogger and journalist who writes for <a href="http://www.zencollegelife.com/" target="_blank">Zen College Life</a>, the directory of higher education, distance learning, and online degrees. She most recently wrote about where to get the best <a href="http://www.zencollegelife.com/online-criminal-justice-degrees-from-the-best-criminal-degree-colleges-and-schools/" target="_blank">criminal justice degrees</a>.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are parents obligated to pay college tuition for their kids to attend college? Should parents pay for college or should college students be responsible for paying college related expenses including tuition, with or without their parents help? The question of who pays for college continues to be a controversial (sometimes heated) debate between kids planning [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!--INFOLINKS_ON--><p><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-4354" style="float: left; padding: 0 15px 10px 0;" title="Paying for College - Should Parents Pay?" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/Paying-for-College-Should-Parents-Pay-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" /> Are parents obligated to pay college tuition for their kids to attend college? Should parents pay for college or should college students be responsible for paying college related expenses including tuition, with or without their parents help? The question of who pays for college continues to be a controversial (sometimes heated) debate between kids planning to attend college, and their parents.</p>
<p>Parents, are you <a title="Responsible for Kids College Education" href="http://www.untwistedvortex.com/2010/03/13/responsible-sons-nursing-school-education-nursing-degree/" target="_blank">responsible for paying your kids college education</a> or not? If parents are supposed to pay for college, how much should parents pay towards tuition, books, housing costs, <a href="http://www.fiscalgeek.com/2009/09/kids-drive/" target="_blank">transportation</a>, gas, insurance, food, clothing, entertainment and miscellaneous expenses for college? Where do parents draw the line between <a title="Helping and Enabling" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/01/helping-and-enabling-is-there-a-difference.html" target="_self">helping kids</a> attend college and not jeopardizing their savings and retirement accounts? To say that your retirement plans <a href="http://articles.moneycentral.msn.com/CollegeAndFamily/SavingForCollege/6ReasonsNotToSaveForKids.aspx?page=1" target="_blank">are more important</a> than your children&#8217;s college funds is putting it mildly.</p>
<p>The all too common belief some people have that it is somehow a <a title="What Parents Owe Their Children" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/08/what-parents-owe-their-children.html" target="_self">parents obligation to pay for college</a>, as if parents “owe” their kids a paid-for college education, reeks of unrealistic expectations and a <a title="A Sense of Entitlement" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/07/a-sense-of-entitlement.html" target="_self">sense of entitlement</a> in today’s society. Parents who cannot afford to pay for their kids to attend college, or choose not to pay some or all college expenses for their own personal or financial reasons, are almost made out to be bad parents.</p>
<p>These parents are accused of not loving their kids, not wanting their children to be successful in life, and not worthy of being called parents amongst other things. Loving your children has nothing to do with who is going to pay for college, or a parent’s desire for their kids to become successful, independent adults. In <a href="http://www.bargaineering.com/articles/dont-pay-your-childrens-college-education.html" target="_blank">an article</a> entitled “don’t pay your children’s college education&#8221;, the writer aptly points out that paying for college is not about love, sacrifice or devotion towards kids. There is much more to it than that.</p>
<p>So, parents <em>have to pay for college if they have the money</em>, right? Wrong. “How am I going to pay for my college education if my parents won’t pay, can’t afford to help, or refuse to fill out the FAFSA?” is a common question.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;"><strong>Who Pays For College?</strong></span></p>
<p>Opinions on why parents should pay for college vs. parents who should not pay for college vary, as expected. Even “personal finance experts” can’t seem to agree. Words like should, must, have to, obligation, responsibility and similar terms used by college-aged kids expecting their parents to pay for all college expenses with little or no “skin in the game” themselves is ludicrous. I have yet to find a parenting manual that states parents must pay for their child’s college education, whether parents can afford the costs or not.</p>
<p>Don’t get me wrong, education is important. Many parents already do what they can to ensure their kids get a great education until high school graduation. But, parents do not owe their children a college education. Parents paying for college is not a kids “right” to a free ride through college, but is a parents choice to decide whether to pay or not pay for any part of their kids higher education, how much, and on what terms.</p>
<p><strong>You can take loans for college but not for retirement.</strong> Even financial expert <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0385530935?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0385530935">Suze Orman</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0385530935" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> says it is financially irresponsible and downright dangerous for parents to basically write a blank check from the <a title="Bank of Mom and Dad" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2007/03/closing-the-bank-of-mom-and-dad.html" target="_self">bank of mom and dad</a> to pay for their kids college education, or take out a second mortgage to pay for college. IF parents can afford to pay for college and choose to do so, then by all means pay for your child to go to college to whatever degree you are financially able to do so, without sacrificing your savings account or retirement account.</p>
<p><span style="color: #003366; font-size: medium;"><strong>How to Pay For College</strong></span></p>
<p>Planning ahead towards college costs with money set aside in a 529 plan for your kids education is a smart option for parents, if they choose to and can afford it. Parents can also help their children look for scholarships, federal grants, student loans and sources of “free money” for college. For those in Canada, similar to a 529 plan is an RESP, or Registered Education Savings Plan. It’s a tax-free savings account you can open up for your child and contribute money to until he or she attends post-secondary. Anyone can contribute; the lifetime limit is $50,000 per beneficiary.</p>
<p>Do not allow your children, or society in general, to guilt-trip or demand that you pay for your child’s college education if you cannot afford to pay or choose not to pay for your kids to go to college. It is entirely up to you, the parents.</p>
<p>I couldn’t help but laugh when I read <a href="http://www.finaid.org/otheraid/parentsrefuse.phtml" target="_blank">this article</a> suggesting the “federal government and the schools consider it the family&#8217;s primary responsibility to pay for the child&#8217;s education&#8221;, wrongly implying that parents are legally required to pay for college. Let the <a href="http://www.eduinreview.com/blog/2008/08/parents-who-refuse-to-help-kids-pay-for-college/" target="_blank">whining and moaning</a> commence. Parents who have college-aged kids have already fulfilled their <a href="http://www.llamamoney.com/college-and-a-parents-responsibility/" target="_blank">responsibility to their kids</a> education throughout elementary, middle/intermediate and high school. The article about the federal government even suggests kids who have Christian or religious parents should hurl scripture quotes from the Bible at parents in order to manipulate or coerce parents into paying for college.</p>
<p>Should parents pay for college or should parents <a href="http://financefreelancelife.com/2010/03/10/working-while-a-student-get-ahead-or-find-job-overqualified/" target="_blank">make kids find a job</a> and <a href="http://www.moolanomy.com/453/pay-for-college-or-make-them-work-for-it-gp/" target="_blank">work through college</a> to help themselves get a great education? A parents legal and moral obligation to care and provide for their children ends when kids reach the age of 18 and they are considered to be adults in the U.S. While parents have an obligation to care for minor children and provide them the best education possible, parents are not obligated or responsible for adult children. Unfortunately, many parents continue to pay for and <a title="How to Stop Enabling Grown Children" href="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/2008/04/how-to-stop-enabling-when-our-grown-children-disappoint-us.html" target="_self">enable their grown kids</a> anyway.</p>
<p>If you are a parent researching information on the advantages and disadvantages of paying for all or some of your <a href="http://www.biblemoneymatters.com/2008/04/college-expenses-should-parents-pay-for.html" target="_blank">kids college education</a>, carefully consider and bookmark these <a href="http://mynextbuck.com/why-you-should-save-for-your-kids-college-education/" target="_blank">devil&#8217;s advocate</a> articles on who should pay for college, and <a href="http://www.savingadvice.com/blog/2009/04/29/104453_who-should-pay-for-college.html" target="_blank">who should not</a> pay and how <a href="http://studenomics.com/personal-finance/why-parents-shouldnt-pay-for-their-kids-college-education/" target="_blank">helping pay for college</a> can lead to trouble. The decision is ultimately yours, so choose wisely, unless you don’t mind eating cat food in your elderly years. The book <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0981549101?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=teitliitis-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0981549101">The Best Way to Save for College-A Complete Guide to 529 Plans</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=teitliitis-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0981549101" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Joseph Hurley comes highly recommended by finance expert Suze Orman.</p>
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