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		<title>The Art of a Good Marriage</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens.
A good marriage must be created.
In marriage the little things are the big things.
It is never being too old to hold hands.
It is remembering to say &#8220;I love you&#8221; at least once a day.
It is never going to sleep angry.
It is at no time taking the other [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!-- google_ad_section_start --><p><img vspace="20" align="left" src="http://www.tellinitlikeitis.net/wp-content/uploads/the-art-of-a-good-marriage.jpg" hspace="20" alt="The Art of a Good Marriage" style="padding-right: 10px; padding-left: 0pt; float: left; padding-bottom: 10px; padding-top: 0pt" title="The Art of a Good Marriage" />Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens.<br />
A good marriage must be created.<br />
In marriage the little things are the big things.<br />
It is never being too old to hold hands.<br />
It is remembering to say &#8220;I love you&#8221; at least once a day.<br />
It is never going to sleep angry.<br />
It is at no time taking the other for granted; the courtship should not end with the honeymoon, it should continue through all the years.<br />
It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.<br />
It is standing together facing the world.<br />
It is forming a circle of love that gathers in the whole family.<br />
It is doing things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice, but in the spirit of joy.<br />
It is speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.<br />
It is not looking for perfection in each other.<br />
It is cultivating flexibility, patience, understanding and a sense of humor.<br />
It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.<br />
It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow.<br />
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.<br />
It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal, dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal.<br />
It is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner.<br />
(Author: Wilferd Arlan Peterson)<br />
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